Any idess to get him legally out

[cjba]

Sreno7,

I'm happy to hear that you and your family are building a bond in this time. It is a positive move on what you and your children are doing. You stil remain a family even if your husband is not in the picture. It is his choice to stay away and he has to figure out his problems. Meanwhile you and your children need to find peace and healing.

It is good that your daughter opened up to you and requested counseling. She is wise to realize what is needed for healing. This will only be healthy for her emotionally to be able to express her feelings with someone that is outside of the family unit.

In regards with your son. This is also positive that you are making an effort with his girlfriend. You need to do what is needed to strengthen the bond with your children. Seems to me that you are all on the right path now.

You and your family remain in my prayers.

God Bless

 

[sreno7]

Sreno7,

I'm happy to hear that you and your family are building a bond in this time. It is a positive move on what you and your children are doing. You stil remain a family even if your husband is not in the picture. It is his choice to stay away and he has to figure out his problems. Meanwhile you and your children need to find peace and healing.

It is good that your daughter opened up to you and requested counseling. She is wise to realize what is needed for healing. This will only be healthy for her emotionally to be able to express her feelings with someone that is outside of the family unit.

In regards with your son. This is also positive that you are making an effort with his girlfriend. You need to do what is needed to strengthen the bond with your children. Seems to me that you are all on the right path now.

You and your family remain in my prayers.

God Bless

Well just to complicate things my husband decided to come see me on my birthday and he is still here. We haven't "talked" yet.

 

[cjba]

Sreno7,

I know it is hard to have him there at times. But this is a good sign. Take it one day at a time. Let God guide you path and let Him work in both of you.

Have you talked to your husband yet?

You and your family continue to be in my prayers.

God Bless

 

[sreno7]

I have talked to him some and he wants to stay. Our daughter is having a hard time afraid he is just going to leave again.

 

[AirForceTeacher]

Like, move back in stay?

How does tis make you feel - do you feel safe with this?

I'll be praying for both of you.

 

[cjba]

Sreno7,

If he wants to stay let him know the situation needs to change. He needs counseling to figure out what is going on with him. He is affecting the children and he needs to realize this. He needs to make a choice to work on being a family or not.

Please do not go back and forth as I have. If you do you remain in limbo. Action needs to be taken for the family sake. I don't mean this in a negative way either. This can be a very positive experience for the entire family.

God Bless