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Glad we agree
Btw, Ms Elizabeth, were you referring to the song 'Where have all the flowers gone?'
I don't know about you, but it seems to me like finding a good man is becoming harder and harder to come by. My name is Elle and I am 23, i know this seems silly but i want to believe in fairy tales again.
I want to enjoy being single, but long to have a boyfriend. I look to guys like Josh Groban and Shemar Moore and think, "Why are the good guys so out of reach". I mean, am i alone in this or what?
I don't know about you, but it seems to me like finding a good man is becoming harder and harder to come by. My name is Elle and I am 23, i know this seems silly but i want to believe in fairy tales again.
I want to enjoy being single, but long to have a boyfriend. I look to guys like Josh Groban and Shemar Moore and think, "Why are the good guys so out of reach". I mean, am i alone in this or what?
A lot of it has to do with being in the right circles. While it seems good guys (and gals for that matter) are difficult to find...it can be done. I've been extremely blessed to be surrounded by several very Godly men my age. All of which are single, except now for myself. Honestly I wonder sometimes how a couple of them are still single since they're such great guys, though I know a lot of it has to do with the fact that they're simply patiently waiting for God to show them the right woman.
I know exactly how the OP feels. While your post was very encouraging, Phantom, as a reminder that good Christian men do exist, I think the problem is just like you said: being in the rights circles. But how does one find these "right circles"? What does one do when the region they live in doesn't even have a lot of young adults to begin with (and even fewer, if any, Christian young adults)? What does one do when they are the only person between 18 and 35 in just about every single church they walk into?
I try to trust God and His timing, but it's not always easy. I know that I probably won't be in a position where I can move and have time to pursue romantic relationships any time in the near future; by the time I do, I may be considered "too old" lol! I'm already facing pressure from family members (who are Christians) to simply marry any half-decent man, whether he's a Christian or not, so that I don't end up alone for the rest of my life. I am slowly beginning to force myself to face the real possibility that I may never marry.
I don't mean to rant or be negative. I'm just really wanting to know: How can someone find these "right circles"? And how can someone become okay with the prospect of never marrying anyone?
I used to be in your position and the best thing to do is get out of BFE and move to an area where there are more people your age like a larger city. Trust me you'll find cities are more single friendly for young adults.
I don't mean to rant or be negative. I'm just really wanting to know: How can someone find these "right circles"? And how can someone become okay with the prospect of never marrying anyone?
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