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I find it quite disturbing that you're trying to paint the rapist as the victim here. Why exactly can't you see that a rapist is a violent criminal, and isn't a victim in any way?you don't know anything about what your talking about. Rape has nothing to do with sexual drive? are you serious?
Goto a hooker or touch? Do you realize many rapists probably have already done that? I have a close cousin who works at a prison and she says rape is both sexual and power. And that people rape in prison because their sexual urges become so strong that they will do anything for sexual gratification. Many of these inmates even continue their sick sexual perversions even when they get out of prison, many which were straight and only liked women when they first came in. Rape is a sick sexual perversion like pedofilia or homosexuality. Just like pedofilia or homosexuality, it is induced by social factors and how they grew up as children. Do you realize that a large number of rapes happen with alcohol involved? Its kinda hard to crave for power, less alone care about it, when your drunk
And of course I blame the rapists, but many rapists grew up that way because of social or family problems. Many rapists have been abused or raped themselves when they were young. Add that on to the sexualization of women in the media, pornography and zero morality being taught in society and you have a bad combo. And no I am not blaming women, but women today dress extremely immodest and dangle their assests in skimpy clothes, which in turns bombards the potential rapist with sexual urges and thoughts. what do you expect when you do that?
I was with you until this part. [wash my mouth][wash my mouth][wash my mouth][wash my mouth] you.And no I am not blaming women, but women today dress extremely immodest and dangle their assests in skimpy clothes, which in turns bombards the potential rapist with sexual urges and thoughts. what do you expect when you do that?
I find it quite disturbing that you're trying to paint the rapist as the victim here. Why exactly can't you see that a rapist is a violent criminal, and isn't a victim in any way?
And here, yet again, you try to blame rapists' actions on others. Can't you realize that a rapist's main problem is their mind? Rapists are severely mentally disturbed. Therefore, they've got no one but themselves to blame for the way they think and act.You have a way with putting words in peoples mouths. WHen did I say a rapist is not a violent criminal? If you don't realize that there are alot of exterior factors that contribute to rape then you are not living in reality. People aren't born rapists. Its not like a child one day just says "Gee, I think will be a rapist today". THe media bombards people with sexual images, magazines, abortion/BC and pornography. The media sexualizes women and turns them into nothing but an object. It teaches people to treat women like objects. It teaches women that sex sells and that they should dress skimpy and immodest. Even public schools since they teach evolution create a mindset in children that we are nothing but animals that evolved from monkeys instead of special beings from God. It devalues the life and dignity of people. Many rapists were victims of rape or sexual abuse themselves. At the end of all of this the rapist has such a low view on human life and dignity that he is a bomb just waiting to explode. Why? because he was not taught good christian morals and the value of human life and personhood, probably grew up in a broken home with abuse, with zero care from the parents. Maybe if people started concentrating on how we should raise our children(bringing them up with good moral christian values) and kept them from being poisoned from the world less rape would happen
I second that.I was with you until this part. [wash my mouth][wash my mouth][wash my mouth][wash my mouth] you.
And here, yet again, you try to blame rapists' actions on others. Can't you realize that a rapist's main problem is their mind? Rapists are severely mentally disturbed. Therefore, they've got no one but themselves to blame for the way they think and act.
So how do you explain rapists who attack fully-clothed women who aren't showing off their bodies at all, then, if your theory of "the woman is partly to blame for being raped" is true?and how do you think they become that way? What about the parents who are raising up a child to be a rapist? Im not blaming others. Its fully in the persons free will to do what he is going to do. In no way am I reducing the culpability of the rapist, but there are many exterior things that feeds the fire in a criminal .The U.S. FBI Index of Crime reported a 418 percent increase in "forcible rape" from 1960 to 1999
you don't know anything about what your talking about. Rape has nothing to do with sexual drive? are you serious?
Goto a hooker or touch? Do you realize many rapists probably have already done that? I have a close cousin who works at a prison and she says rape is both sexual and power. And that people rape in prison because their sexual urges become so strong that they will do anything for sexual gratification. Many of these inmates even continue their sick sexual perversions even when they get out of prison, many which were straight and only liked women when they first came in. Rape is a sick sexual perversion like pedofilia or homosexuality. Just like pedofilia or homosexuality, it is induced by social factors and how they grew up as children. Do you realize that a large number of rapes happen with alcohol involved? Its kinda hard to crave for power, less alone care about it, when your drunk
And of course I blame the rapists, but many rapists grew up that way because of social or family problems. Many rapists have been abused or raped themselves when they were young. Add that on to the sexualization of women in the media, pornography and zero morality being taught in society and you have a bad combo. And no I am not blaming women, but women today dress extremely immodest and dangle their assests in skimpy clothes, which in turns bombards the potential rapist with sexual urges and thoughts. what do you expect when you do that?
So how do you explain rapists who attack fully-clothed women who aren't showing off their bodies at all, then, if your theory of "the woman is partly to blame for being raped" is true?
Sex isn't a bad thing, though. It's perfectly natural. So why do you seem to think that it should be hidden away? And why do you seem to think that such a natural thing as sex could somehow spur a rapist on?uhh that is not my theory, again your putting words in my mouth. Im talking about the general bombardment of sex in society contributes to rape. The raptist is fully culpable for what he does. But with the sexualization of women in pornography, immodest clothing, and the media does nothing but feed the fire. Its throwing salt on an already open wound.
You have a way with putting words in peoples mouths. WHen did I say a rapist is not a violent criminal? If you don't realize that there are alot of exterior factors that contribute to rape then you are not living in reality. People aren't born rapists. Its not like a child one day just says "Gee, I think will be a rapist today". THe media bombards people with sexual images, magazines, abortion/BC and pornography. The media sexualizes women and turns them into nothing but an object. It teaches people to treat women like objects. It teaches women that sex sells and that they should dress skimpy and immodest, to go out and get drunk and have one night stands. Even public schools since they teach evolution create a mindset in children that we are nothing but animals that evolved from monkeys instead of special beings from God. It devalues the life and dignity of people. Many rapists were victims of rape or sexual abuse themselves. At the end of all of this the rapist has such a low view on human life and dignity that he is a bomb just waiting to explode. Why? because he was not taught good christian morals and the value of human life and personhood, probably grew up in a broken home with abuse, with zero care from the parents. Maybe if people started concentrating on how we should raise our children(bringing them up with good moral christian values) and kept them from being poisoned from the world less rape would happen
Sex isn't a bad thing, though. It's perfectly natural. So why do you seem to think that it should be hidden away? And why do you seem to think that such a natural thing as sex could somehow spur a rapist on?
So do you think we should make guns a taboo subject as well, then, since the mere mention of guns can cause a person to want to shoot others? If not, then why do you think the same thing about sex?because it bombards the rapist with more and more sexual images in his mind causing more lust and objectification of other people, which in turn could increase his likelihood that he would act out on it in real life.
because it bombards the rapist with more and more sexual images in his mind causing more lust and objectification of other people, which in turn could increase his likelihood that he would act out on it in real life.
So do you think we should make guns a taboo subject as well, then, since the mere mention of guns can cause a person to want to shoot others? If not, then why do you think the same thing about sex?
I'm in Middlesex County (I don't want to be more specific than that because this is an open forum, sorry). Why, do you live in MA, too?We should also outlaw s'mores cooking, campfires, bonfires, and homes with fireplaces because those things make pyromaniacs want to commit arson. To him, those are sexual images and those "Firewood For Sale" stands on the side of the road are his pornography.
Btw, HB, what part of MA? (Yes iam too lazy to look on your profile!)
I'm in Middlesex County (I don't want to be more specific than that because this is an open forum, sorry). Why, do you live in MA, too?
Oh, wow. I live right near one of the Commuter Rail stops, too, so I could easily get on the Red Line (from North Station) and stalk (*ahem* visit) you.Norfolk county, about a 20 minute redline ride to downtown crossing. (It's not really a secret where I live.)
I'm in Middlesex County (I don't want to be more specific than that because this is an open forum, sorry). Why, do you live in MA, too?
Norfolk county, about a 20 minute redline ride to downtown crossing. (It's not really a secret where I live.)
Oh, wow. I live right near one of the Commuter Rail stops, too, so I could easily get on the Red Line (from North Station) and stalk (*ahem* visit) you.LOL.
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