I should add that just a couple of weeks ago ago I had a day where I was feeling unusually uplifted, with a sense of peace that I haven't had in a long time, which I thought was the result of answered prayer. Another long story short, I was involved in a secular debate forum where I ran into someone of a certain agenda that really has a tendency to upset me. I decided to respond in kind, to expose how unfair and hypocritical the agenda is. I immediately lost that sense of peace until I had to think about what I had done, then I confessed and went back to delete my posts. It came back a bit after that.
When I was thinking about it I realized, you know, I'm a person of faith, and that perspective bothers me because of my convictions, but acting as a person of faith, I was being a sheep. It dawned on me -- the way of a sheep is not the way of the shepherd. The sheep, the person of faith, may have a regard for the things of God, and there's nothing necessarily wrong with that, but in this situation, if the shepherd were to act that way, he would be self-absorbed, but that's not the reality, because God was motivated by love for others. It was a huge challenge for me -- people of other convictions, even non-christians, are going to create irreconcilable conflicts for me, but if I'm going to have Christ's spirit I need to follow Christ and I wasn't at that moment.
That was just before I came back to CF, which is where your post came in
@GospelS.