Another Question...

[x.miranda.x]

Ok, so some of you may have read my other post "Need Advice " (it won't let me post a link.).But I have decided that I am going to talk to this guy. So what is the best way for me to get the courage to? And what is the best way to start/have a coversation with him? Thanks for any help!

 

[fm107]

The more you think about it the harder it will be.

Your have to be careful you're not making a mountain out of a molehill.

Don't approach him with rehearsed sentences etc.

Just approach him, tell him you'd like to restore your friendship with him (something along those lines) and take it from there.

I tell this to many people and I'll say it to you too. If it's God's will for the two of you to be together then you will be together.

But I hope your prepared if things don't go as planned. Look at it another way, may be you won't look back in life with regret of not approaching your old friend. At least you can say, well I gave it a shot now I can move on.


Regards,

 

[x.miranda.x]

Thanks. That's a good way to look at it. Atleast I won't be regretting NOT trying.

 

[Autumnleaf]

You walk up to him and say, "Sup." while you nod your head up. Its a bold move to be sure. And it is possible you may botch it. You might want to practice a few times in front of a mirror to get the combination down right.

 

[x.miranda.x]

oooohhh I can try, but I'm not exactly an extremely bold person... haha

 

[Bootstrap]

Try the honest approach.

Say you've been wanting to talk to him, you like spending time with him, but you've been feeling shy about approaching him.

The ball's in his court then.

The first step is to establish a smile and a conversation, not to establish a relationship. Baby steps.

 

[x.miranda.x]

Ok. So tonight at youth group I DID talk to him. I went up with my best friend, who is friends with him. She was talking to him about something (the game going on). And I said "hi (his name)" and after I asked, he look away from me.. and I don;t know what that's supposed to mean.?