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I'm one of those guys who has lots of girl friends, but none of whom really could ever see him as more of a friend, possibly because he's too nice or innocent or even cowardly to move on to another level.
I'm a sad, sad little man.
Common story. I can think of two things you could do. Pick a girl and take her to the park. Or someplace else free. I would not take her anywhere out of custom for me. Most likely to IHOP (because I pay for my friends anyway). The point is... don't try too hard. You're only doing this for fun.
Then... stir her up. Really. Tag her and say "You're It". Talk to her. give her a good time,, as long as you''re havinng fun too. Make her laugh. r make her mad. Whatever. Just... Have fu with her.
repeat.
Just... stop being so nice. Be something else.