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Blue Impulse said:
I'm a fidgety person, i don't have ADD but I'm constantly moving, I can't stand in one place, I can't sit without my leg constantly moving or my arm or something of the like, I can't stay quiet for long periods of time. If my husband when I was dating him told me to be calm when he was calm *I* would have left him, so you may as well either leave her, or go ahead and tell her to be calm and hopefully with a little common sense *she* will up and leave *you*

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Me too! I can't sit still in class or church and I fidget a lot. If my husband when I was dating him had told me to be calm when he is calm I would have said, dude, you can be calm by yourself see ya :wave: That's the honest truth
 
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My gf fidgets and moves all the time. Something is always moving. For example her legs...she is always moving her legs...and I assume she is cold... so I ask her if she is cold and she says 'no, you know i cant sit still'. It is a quark. But it doesnt bother me. In fact it does the opposite. It is part of who she is, and I deeply care for her. Everything about her. I cannot think of one thing she does that I can say is annoying...even if it would seem to everyone else...including herself that it is annoying. Because it is about so much more...she is precious, and by dwelling on something as trivial as this, you are miss that.

There is a huge difference between a real problem and something is annoying I guess is perception. If you cannot get past this, there is no reason you should be dating this girl. It will lead to nothing...because you cannot change it...and dont try to change it. You need to care for her for who she is.
 
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