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[/FONT]You should wear your infractions with pride.Floatingaxe said:Why, oh why do the infractions have to be listed first thing on one's Homepage? There was a perfect place for it on the Control Panel page. Why this change? It looks atrocious, and detracts from the invitation to others to view a member's information.
Dont user abbreviations that people may be unfamiliar with. RT = Reconciliation Team.mnphysicist said:Yes, it is possible... it should be very more rare than a post which earns 2 infraction points. Remember, the RT has staff oversight, and admins will be keeping much closer watch than ever before.
[/FONT]We wikied something similar in the banning protocol wiki, which is one of those wikis the Powers That Be did not think worth snapshotting.snoochface said:How can you go from a 1 month ban to a perma-ban, with no steps in between? That seems like going overboard. Shouldn't there be a 3-month ban, a 6-month ban, maybe then a perma-ban?
Case in point.Expecting Christian behavior from Christians?
It's not going to happen.
The lesson to be learned from the New Infractions & Warning System is that if you dont want to be permanently banned, dont post any posts at all lest one of the staff members doesnt like your denomination or your haircut. I just started posting again after leaving this message board for almost 8 months because a moderator who had an issue with me for reporting him for plagiarism turned my experience on this message board from one of Christian fellowship to a horrific nightmare. I appealed to an administrator for help and presented to him very extensive documentation of the facts involved but rather than help me, the administrator falsely accused me of a whole list of offenses, none of which I was guilty of, and cast at me a multitude of extremely hateful and malicious insults and gave me a warning!
I had made every effort in every one of my posts to obey every rule of this message board both in letter and spirit and very carefully read everyone of my posts at least three times before posting it in order to avoid even the remotest possibility that a moderator could find fault with it, but when a moderator hates a member for personal reasons and becomes vindictive against that member, and other moderators and administrators join in with the vindictive moderator, that member has no recourse but to quit posting. Fortunately, all but one of the of the moderators and the administrator who attacked me are no longer staff members, but with the New Infractions & Warning System I fear that I am even more susceptible to such maliciousness than I was before.
I very clearly understand that some members flagrantly and willfully break the rules and in doing so cause injury to other members and the message board as a whole, but I have personally witnessed what happens when a staff member goes after a member that he or she has a personal issue with that has absolutely nothing to do with the contents of his posts. I have also personally witnessed on several occasions what can happen when a moderator of limited education and intelligence reads a post written by a highly educated individual in which the writer of the post found it necessary, for the sake of precision, to use complex syntax and sentence structure that was miles above the head of the moderator causing the moderator to radically misunderstand the post and wrongly interpret it to be inflammatory.
My field of study is translation theory and the problems involved in translating a piece of writing written in one language and culture so that persons of a very different and sometimes a highly diverse culture using another language can understand the concepts that original author was expressing in what he wrote. Therefore I am very much aware of the potential problems involved in expressing oneself on a message board where ones intent may primarily be to reply to the writer of a specific message in a thread being read by members of diverse cultures and cognitive abilities and I make every effort to mitigate those problems. All of these efforts, however, are of no avail when heavy-handed moderators are given too much latitude and power in their use of the ax.
You might want to go back through the threads dealing with the changes from July of this year and count the number of times Christians proclaim that if they aren't treated as superior to others, allowed to persecute others and would actually have to share, it just wouldn't be a Christian site.Case in point.
I've had a few such experiences, though none quite so extreme as yours. My first months here were greeted by a guy who covered a forum of specific interest to me (something I've studied for 14-years). Many of those posting the con-side of the issue were ill-informed and ill-equipped to support their views so, as seems to be the habit of some, they turned to insults to fend off the thoroughly referenced material I provided in an attempt to fill them in on some information of which they were obviously unaware.The lesson to be learned from the New Infractions & Warning System is that if you don’t want to be permanently banned, don’t post any posts at all lest one of the staff members doesn’t like your denomination or your haircut. I just started posting again after leaving this message board for almost 8 months because a moderator who had an issue with me for reporting him for plagiarism turned my experience on this message board from one of Christian fellowship to a horrific nightmare. I appealed to an administrator for help and presented to him very extensive documentation of the facts involved but rather than help me, the administrator falsely accused me of a whole list of offenses, none of which I was guilty of, and cast at me a multitude of extremely hateful and malicious insults and gave me a warning!
I had made every effort in every one of my posts to obey every rule of this message board both in letter and spirit and very carefully read everyone of my posts at least three times before posting it in order to avoid even the remotest possibility that a moderator could find fault with it, but when a moderator hates a member for personal reasons and becomes vindictive against that member, and other moderators and administrators join in with the vindictive moderator, that member has no recourse but to quit posting. Fortunately, all but one of the of the moderators and the administrator who attacked me are no longer staff members, but with the New Infractions & Warning System I fear that I am even more susceptible to such maliciousness than I was before.
I think I get what you're saying here but just for clarification, there isn't anything anyone can type on this board which will cause injury or harm to anyone else. That's something all staff members need to wrap themselves around before they ever decide to act on anything.I very clearly understand that some members flagrantly and willfully break the rules and in doing so cause injury to other members and the message board as a whole...
Several of us have, though most of us have been lucky enough not to suffer to the degree you have. That's something else staff members need to be very clear on; nothing members write is truly harmful but the actions of staff can very easily cause harm because it's not just words; its actions, demands and violations of basic human rights such as the right to present one's opinion or factual data. Sometimes I really don't understand where anyone gets the idea that they actually have anything close to the right to attempt to tell someone else what they can or can't say. The nerve and arrogance required for that is simply off the scale....but I have personally witnessed what happens when a staff member goes after a member that he or she has a personal issue with that has absolutely nothing to do with the contents of his posts.
I'm glad you brought this up because this is a huge problem here. I can't tell you the number of times I've submitted a post and then been advised that the post violated a rule and upon seeking clarification, it becomes apparent that the moderator doesn't understand one of the words I've used and simply assumes it's something derogatory when it isn't. At that point you're pretty well stuck because, in my experience, they're already getting pretty defensive by that point and if you point out that the problem is their limited vocabulary -- no matter how you say it, it's not going to be pretty.I have also personally witnessed on several occasions what can happen when a moderator of limited education and intelligence reads a post written by a highly educated individual in which the writer of the post found it necessary, for the sake of precision, to use complex syntax and sentence structure that was miles above the head of the moderator causing the moderator to radically misunderstand the post and wrongly interpret it to be inflammatory.
The answer is simple. Getting that simple answer implemented is the problem. Staff members need to be very clear that they are here for the membership. The membership is not here for them. Unfortunately, "power corrupts and absolute power corrupts, absolutely."My field of study is translation theory and the problems involved in translating a piece of writing written in one language and culture so that persons of a very different and sometimes a highly diverse culture using another language can understand the concepts that original author was expressing in what he wrote. Therefore I am very much aware of the potential problems involved in expressing oneself on a message board where one’s intent may primarily be to reply to the writer of a specific message in a thread being read by members of diverse cultures and cognitive abilities and I make every effort to mitigate those problems. All of these efforts, however, are of no avail when heavy-handed moderators are given too much latitude and power in their use of the ax.
Expecting Christian behavior from Christians?
It's not going to happen.
To what purpose does your generalizations aspire other than to put down a whole class of people? The stuff genicide is made of.You might want to go back through the threads dealing with the changes from July of this year and count the number of times Christians proclaim that if they aren't treated as superior to others, allowed to persecute others and would actually have to share, it just wouldn't be a Christian site.
They said it, not I. I'm just working from the evidence they provided.
To what purpose does your generalizations aspire other than to put down a whole class of people? The stuff genicide is made of.
I suppose that depends if your speaking as a muslum or not. Deal with individual problems, not classes of people. You are the letter of the law not the spirit, not a good place to come from imoNot every venomous snake will envenomate you with every bite. That doesn't make it sound advice to play carelessly with venomous snakes. The fact that 25% of bites from venomous snakes are "dry bites" doesn't change the fact that the other 75% result in envenomation. Am I putting down an entire class of reptile or simply working with the odds to promote the appropriate level of caution?
Whether or not either of us like it, the majority of Christians are elitists and consider the practice of bigotry to be their God-given right. I don't blame you for disliking that since it colors you with the same brush, even though you may be very different than that. But your efforts would be better spent attempting to change their behaviors than confronting me simply for observing their behaviors. Given the evidence and the stories here, you might want to start by joining those who are trying to penetrate Lee's closed ears.
My icon shows that I'm not a Muslim. Obviously, since I'm not one, I can't speak as one.I suppose that depends if your speaking as a muslum or not.
When not just the majority, but the vast majority, of those following a particular belief system continually proclaim love, tolerance and caring but practice hatred, intolerance and elitism, maybe the problem lies within the belief system.Deal with individual problems, not classes of people.
I'm not working with laws. I'm working with observations. Christians tend to talk about Christian values, but tend not to practice them. I'd like to see that change. It seems you'd like to see that change as well. But you concentrate your efforts on trying to prevent people from seeing the problem instead of working on the problem itself. It has nothing to do with law.You are the letter of the law not the spirit, not a good place to come from imo
but you are speaking from intolerance of people, when you should be speaking about intolerance of behavior. For me to look at your post and see "all Christians are closeminded so=n-sos" says nothing. Frustration may be doing you in, but stick with agenda not throwing dirt b/c you only lose ground that way.My icon shows that I'm not a Muslim. Obviously, since I'm not one, I can't speak as one.
now your peeving me, what would an athiest know about the Christian belief system? How much bible reading have you done from cover to cover, in context, cross referenced etc. Your belief system is easy to defend since you believe in nothing. There are many, many who like the phoney respectability of the Christian status, but that doesn't make them a Christian any more than eating hamburgers makes a person a vegetarian. Since it's those people you have a beef against maybe you need to seperate them from true Christianity and quite running down Christians.When not just the majority, but the vast majority, of those following a particular belief system continually proclaim love, tolerance and caring but practice hatred, intolerance and elitism, maybe the problem lies within the belief system.
I'm not working with laws. I'm working with observations. Christians tend to talk about Christian values, but tend not to practice them. I'd like to see that change. It seems you'd like to see that change as well. But you concentrate your efforts on trying to prevent people from seeing the problem instead of working on the problem itself. It has nothing to do with law.
This is quickly reaching the point where it may be appropriate to take it to a new thread. I'm speaking of the intolerance of a people who follow a given belief system which is supposed to be based on tolerance. There appears to be something inherent in the belief system or how it is produced in people which lends to a strict intolerance of those who do not subscribe to the belief system. I'm not here to apologize for that. I'm just pointing it out.but you are speaking from intolerance of people, when you should be speaking about intolerance of behavior. For me to look at your post and see "all Christians are closeminded so=n-sos" says nothing. Frustration may be doing you in, but stick with agenda not throwing dirt b/c you only lose ground that way.
That is your prerogative, not my intent.now your peeving me,
Are you serious? Perhaps you should spend a bit more time in GA. If you pay attention, you'll find that the atheists tend to know at least as much about Christianity as the Christians do and sometimes more. We weren't all born non-Christians, you know. I've probably learned more about Christianity since becoming an atheist than I ever knew about it as a theist. I could probably tell you a few things you didn't know and don't care to know as you could me. You might not want to fall for the fallacy that atheists don't know about Christianity at the same time you're objecting to generalizations.what would an athiest know about the Christian belief system?
A little experience around Christians will quickly illustrate that they don't base their beliefs on the Bible. They base them on their own desires and then try to bend the Bible to fit. If you'd like to take this to a different thread in GA, I'd be happy to see how much of the Bible you actually believe and how much your beliefs are based on evasions of the text in the Bible.How much bible reading have you done from cover to cover, in context, cross referenced etc.
Which only demonstrates that you know nothing of my beliefs. I believe in compassion and trying to live in a manner which attempts to avoid harm to other sentient beings. You probably don't want to try to challenge my beliefs on a side-by-side comparison. I have little doubt that I can demonstrate in one sentence that my beliefs are more benevolent, caring and harmless than yours. But this isn't about my beliefs. It's about the common practices of Christians which you seem to dislike, but would rather hide under the carpet by attacking those who expose them.Your belief system is easy to defend since you believe in nothing.
Eating a hamburger and being a vegetarian are opposites. Preaching Christian values and calling one's self a "Christian" are not opposites. Preaching Christians values and practicing in direct opposition to those values is just hypocrisy. But it's also demonstrated in the vast majority of those who call themselves "Christian".There are many, many who like the phoney respectability of the Christian status, but that doesn't make them a Christian any more than eating hamburgers makes a person a vegetarian.
It would seem we both have a distaste for such people. I prefer to expose them and you prefer to try to hide them and present Christianity as good, and the vast majority of Christians as bad... but you don't want to talk about them.Since it's those people you have a beef against maybe you need to seperate them from true Christianity and quite running down Christians.
Have you ever visited other Christian message boards? This is a problem inherent in the vast majority of them and rarely found in boards dedicated to other topics. Let the evidence stand.You need to be specific about the problems and stop generalizing people.
Start keeping track of my reputation points. If you watch closely, you'll note that the more candidly I speak, the faster they climb. Apparently, I'm saying the things many here are too frightened to say.Your issues may be valid, but honestly, I've had discussions with you when Erwin was changing the agenda of the forum, and I don't know what your agenda is, but it's definately your own, so if people aren't siding with you it's probably b/c they see the problem and are dealing with it in their own way.
there is a problem inherent in the belief system or those spreading that system and that problem is worthy of the attention it receives.