Anniversary After Infidelity

[Charleigh Noble]

Our fifth anniversary is coming up this weekend and it's only been about four months since discovery day. Anyone who has experienced something similar have any advice?? It feels so wrong to be celebrating the day that centered around sacred vows that he broke. He is trying so hard and doing everything he knows to do to be better. But I still cringe at the thought of celebrating the remembrance of a day that holds little value in my mind/heart now. If anything it just brings pain. Any advice is greatly appreciated!

See my previous post for a brief history: How to rebuild trust//

 

[faroukfarouk]

Our fifth anniversary is coming up this weekend and it's only been about four months since discovery day. Anyone who has experienced something similar have any advice?? It feels so wrong to be celebrating the day that centered around sacred vows that he broke. He is trying so hard and doing everything he knows to do to be better. But I still cringe at the thought of celebrating the remembrance of a day that holds little value in my mind/heart now. If anything it just brings pain. Any advice is greatly appreciated!

See my previous post for a brief history: How to rebuild trust//

Hi; sorry to read of your real upset.

You don't need to answer this specifically; but if you guys are 'together' again it might make a great difference. Like, if the wronged spouse is showing a willingness to love and be passionate about the other, despite everything.

Philippians 2 is a moving passage about how deep the Lord Jesus stooped when He willingness went to the Cross.

 

[sdmsanjose]

Charleigh
Do what helps you the most at this time...Being forgiving like Christ is a great spiritual condition but It may be too early for you to be as forgiving as Christ at this time.