I am a confirmed member of the Episcopal Church and come from a Social Science educational perspective. I would like to share my thoughts regarding a lot of the current communication regarding our present cultural changes, particularly the use of words like: "conservatives", "neo-conservatives" and "liberals". When we "label" people and place them in one camp or another, we automatically set up a framework for division. It is akin to two soccer teams or football teams meeting for a match. The expected outcome is that one team will win and the other will lose and who the heck wants to LOSE, God forbid; no one likes a LOSER. One will be labeled a "good" team and the other a "bad" team. It is my humble opinion that the first thing that needs to take place in our fellowship of believers is that we stop labeling and dividing.
One of the primary reasons that I joined the Episcopal Church was because of the acceptance of everyone's right and ability to "work out their own salvation with fear and trembling" (Phillipians 2:12), relying on Holy Scripture as the ultimate authority. It appears to me that the current issue is that there are two very different and conflicting interpretations of Holy Scripture with each side believing that their perspective is correct; however, you know, I think that Jesus was the only one given the ultimate authority to judge whether someone is guilty of "sin". It is not my job to label someone who does not agree with my take on things: "right", "wrong", "good", "bad", "Conservative", or "Liberal". Who are we to judge? I believe that I will be judged based on my life choices and everyone else will face the same judgment. God doesn't really need our help in telling him who is right or wrong.
When I read some of the threads posted, it makes me cringe when I hear the words "CONSERVATIVES" or "LIBERALS" thrown out there, depending on which team you are on, because maybe it is just me, but what I hear is your belief is "wrong", "narrow-minded", "non-inclusive", "bad", "standing in the way of progress", "sinful", ad infinitum. It certainly is not edifying to the Body of Christ.
I'm sure that changing our way of speaking will not make the issues go away; however, I believe that it will at least build some bridges rather than walls.
Dear Lord, I ask that you help us all come to a place of healing with the current lack of unity in our Church. It is hurtful to see our brothers and sisters in pain, conflict and fear. Please help us to remember that you died for us all because you love us all. You have asked us how we can love You, whom we have not seen, if we cannot love our brothers and sisters that we can see. Help us truly see one another, hear one another and bear one anothers' burdens. Help us find the unity that you have provided us in the cross. Amen