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And I Wept...

StogusMaximus

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I saw him in the church building for the first time on
Wednesday. He was in his mid-70's, with thinning silver hair and a neat brown suit.

Many times in the past I had invited him to come to church. Several other Christian friends had talked to him about the Lord and had tried to share the good news with him.

He was a well-respected, honest man with so many characteristics a Christian should have, but he had never accepted Christ, nor entered the doors of the church.

"Have you ever been to a church service in your life?" I had asked him a few years ago. We had just finished a pleasant day of visiting and talking.

He hesitated. Then with a bitter smile he told me of his
childhood experience some fifty years ago.

He was one of many children in a large impoverished family. His parents had struggled to provide food, with little left for housing and clothing.

When he was about ten, some neighbors invited him to worship with them. The Sunday School class had been very exciting! He had never heard such songs and stories before! He had never heard anyone read from the Bible! After class was over, the teacher took him aside and said, "Son, please don't come again dressed as you are now. We want to look our best when we come into God's house."

He stood in his ragged, unpatched overalls. Then looking at his dirty bare feet, he answered softly, "No, ma'am, I won't--ever."

"And I never did," he said, abruptly ending our conversation.

There must have been other factors to have hardened him so, but this experience formed a significant part of the bitterness in his heart. I'm sure that Sunday School teacher meant well. But did she really understand
the love of Christ? Had she studied and accepted the teachings found in the second chapter of James?

What if she had put her arms around the dirty, ragged little boy and said, "Son, I am so glad you are here, and I hope you will come back every chance you get to hear more about Jesus."

I reflected on the awesome responsibility a teacher or pastor or a parent has to welcome little ones in His name. How far reaching her influence was!

I prayed that I might be ever open to the tenderness of a
child's heart, and that I might never fail to see beyond the appearance and behavior of a child to the eternal possibilities within.

Yes, I saw him in the church house for the first time on
Wednesday. As I looked at that immaculately dressed old gentleman lying in his casket, I thought of the little boy of long ago. I could almost hear him say, "No, ma'am, I won't--ever."

And I wept.

(Author Unknown)
 

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Something similar chased my sister out of a church, just when she was starting to seek God.

Kathy decided that today was the day she and her son were going to start going to church. They dressed and went to the church where Kathy was married several years before. The arrived earlier enough for Greg to go to sunday school, but that church didn't have sunday school classes for adults. No problem for Kathy, though, she looked forward to going into the empty sanctuary for a bit of quiet time, a chance to unwind after a hectic week, a time to possibly even pray. She sat in a pew near the front.

As Kathy sat meditating, relaxing and wondering if there was anything to this Christian stuff, an elderly lady with a cane slowly walked down the aisle toward her. When the lady reached Kathy, she tapped Kathy's foot with the cane and said, "Honey, you'll have to find somewhere else to sit. This is where I've sat for 35 years and I'm not going to change places now."

Kathy was startled out of her revery, and deeply offended that this woman would interupt someone in prayer. She looked around the sanctuary and saw that the place was empty except for herself and this woman. The woman could have chosen any seat she wanted, could have chosen to sit next to Kathy (which Kathy would have enjoyed, since she didn't know anyone at the church), but she demanded that Kathy needed to vacate "her" pew.

Kathy asked her if she could sit somewhere else today, since she was trying to talk to God, but the woman insisted that Kathy must be the one to leave.

So she did. She stood up, left the sanctuary without staying for the service, and waited outside Greg's sunday school classroom. When he came out, they left. And they haven't been back to church, any church, since.

I pray that Kathy's next time in church won't be at her own funeral. I can't face eternity without her.
 
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