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An Open Letter to my Little Sister

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My dear sweet child;

I wanted to tell you that I went to the carnival last night
It was the end of the summer season and it is a fun time
Catching up with neighbors about the summer and the community.
Enjoying a hot dog and taking in the sights.

And that is what I wanted to talk to you about. Some of the sights.
I took a look around and saw so many of America's flowers running around
the carnival dressed as if they were about to enter a pole dancing contest.
Exposing more skin than they covered prancing around like shamless
shrine prostitutes.

I can only guess that in part we as grown up men have failed you. Failed you
as fathers and failed you as uncles and as friends. We have failed to tell you that you are worthwhile and that you are beautiful just the way you are. So let me not fail you as a pastor. You are beautiful just the way you are. A modest womman is a a desireable one. The girls that dress this way to draw attention from the boys also draw the same attention from letcherous old men. Tell me is your desire to be lusted after by a 50 year old man with a beer belly? I ask you because you have the same effect on him as that cute 16 year old boy you are throwing yourself at.

Your modesty is a precious thing. If it requires you to dress more provocativly than when you go to bed at night to get the attention of a boy then that boy is not worth your time. Little sister you are growing into a womman each day. And wommen have such a wonderful holy place in G-ds kingdom. Your soft hands and gentle voices will nurture and raise up the next generation. At your knee will our babies learn the words to "Jesus Loves Me" You will support Pastors and Deacons and Elders but you will call them Husband.

I feel compelled to tell you this because I love you. Because Y'shua loves you. G-d has a great plan for your life. To grow into a great womman of G-d. A powerful prayer warrior. A loving wife and a wonderful mom. He has so many plans for you. Please don't miss out on the blessing. Don't you conform to the world! You go stick out like a sore thumb swimming upsteam. It's going to be hard being a virtuious girl but it's going to be worth it!

You have great men and womman of G-d who will help you I promise. And a pastor out there who is praying for you and for all of your contemporaries. Let them know it's ok to be modest. It's ok to be a womman of G-d!



Blessings
Your Brother

Pastor George :preach:
 

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Awesome post Pastor George.:angel: Christian males needs to send this message to females more often no matter what age and not the ones we usually get.

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Oh how I wish more people were so bold as to come out and say what you said in the loving way in which you said it! I do wish especially the youth pastors would be so bold as to speak more to this issue.
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It's so hard to raise a modest daughter, even in the Christian community anymore. (Well at least here in a large CA city,
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and I'm sure other places around the country/world as well.)

~Kathryn, Mom of a 9 yr. old girl and 12 yr. old boy.
Thankyou for your prayers for them in regards to this issue.
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Kathryn13 said:
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Oh how I wish more people were so bold as to come out and say what you said in the loving way in which you said it! I do wish especially the youth pastors would be so bold as to speak more to this issue.
preach.gif
It's so hard to raise a modest daughter, even in the Christian community anymore. (Well at least here in a large CA city,
sigh.gif
and I'm sure other places around the country/world as well.)

~Kathryn, Mom of a 9 yr. old girl and 12 yr. old boy.
Thankyou for your prayers for them in regards to this issue.
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I sooo agree. I know even older guys send the wrong message at church with their eyes sometimes even when you are trying to be modest. I know that not all churches teach this like they should for fear of thinking they will be perceived as trying to take the place of the parents.
So many girls I also talk with don't get good positive attention from the fathers, grandfathers etc... like they should so they go looking for it and it is usually the bad guys that give it to them. :sigh:
I also wish that guys could spend some time in a female's shoes to see what unwanted attention feels like.

One thing I encourage too is mom's/older women to teach girls to be careful at a young age and make her aware of possible situations. My mom did this (she said BEFORE puberty/hormones hit)and at the time I didn't see a problem but as I got older I am glad she did (saved me some heartache and grieve). She has also talked with several of my friends whose mom don't talk to them or feel like they can't talk with them:angel:
 
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A modest womman is a a desireable one
Amen, Amen, and :amen: ! I'm already teaching my 4 year old (will be the 19th) about modesty. There's so much immodesty now that they're exposed to it during commercials, cartoons, and even on the kiddie shows nowadays and I refuse to let the world have her and especially not at this age.

Thanks so much for this wonderful letter!
 
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