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Like many small towns our community is centered around the churches. The center of town is actually the Methodist church and the local bank; which is right in the middle of 'main street' (the church was the first building here, the town built around it). Leading up to the 'center of town' are all of the other churches, all neatly in a row one by one. (At least the historic churches that have been here for decades. The Methodist church pre-dates the civil war and some of the other churches came in shortly after). Each church has a manger scene up.

One has colorful lights, white Mary and Joseph, a GIANT Baby Jesus (if you hold him up he's as tall as Mary and Joseph), magi in colorful robes and crowns, shepherds and animals kneeling, angels and harp players, and a little drummer boy.

Next up, a big barn. Lined with hay. An ageing white-haired white Joseph with a staff, wearing a crown and clothed in blue and purple (royalty) robes, and Mary in a Blue shawl over a white gown, gazes at the infant in a feed trough, same well-appointed Magi, multitude of angels and shepherds.

Next up! The smallest. This one is in this weird half-dome thing, that maybe is trying to not show the building at all but just the 'people'. This one has no Baby Jesus, they don't put him there until Christmas eve (cool!), Joseph is a middle aged white man with a well trimmed beard and short, clean hair. He's standing behind Mary, oddly enough he's wearing 2nd century BC Roman style clothing, and his short hair is sort of cropped like Roman men wore. Mary, a white young woman, is kneeling in her pretty dress next to the empty feed trough. A single (female, long haired; as the other scenes) Angel is suspended above the half-dome. The Magi are outside of the dome wearing strangle looking clothes and hats that look like Orthodox priests habits. All purple, blue, red, etc. The shepherds are young boys in this scene similarly clothed in Roman toga robes, with their tiny little lambs obedienting kneeling. Camels are bowing in reverence towards the feet trough.

And finally, we get to the last manger scene on the street. A young Jospeh with unkempt hair and brown skin and tired eyes looks longingly at Mary as a dirty, smudges, clothes in rags with covered hair young Mary looks at the Baby in the manger, his is wrapped in clothes and sleeping. No Magi are present. Middle-aged shepherds are there (no animals in this particular scene), standing outside of this square scene made it look like the animal/storage area underneath a 1st century home (3 walls and a stone 'top' that is made to look like the floor of an invisible house). Unlike all of the other manger scenes, this one omits garland, colorful (or white) Christmas lights, no poinsettias, no bows. No angels even. Just a plain, quiet, simple scene. Illuminated with spotlights.

Wanna know who had that final, glorious, accurate, beautiful manger scene? The Baptists? The Catholics? No? Out of Guesses?
























The Bank.
 

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LOL
 
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Interesting story

I haven't seen any manger scenes in my town. We are filled with churches so maybe I've missed it, but the churches here don't seem to decorate on the outside. Banks definitely not.
 
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Interesting story

I haven't seen any manger scenes in my town. We are filled with churches so maybe I've missed it, but the churches here don't seem to decorate on the outside. Banks definitely not.

Have you ever noticed how one subdivision is really decorated, and the next one isn't?

Basically, a couple neighbors start decorating, and nobody wants to be the only one who isn't decorated. So a cascading effect happens and everyone decorates.

I've noticed that happen with churches too. Either none in the community do a lot of exterior decorating; or they all do.

In the case of my church; we're actually the only historic church that doesn't. No particular reason, we just never have put a manger scene up. But we do have a couple nice outdoor banners, we put wreaths and garland and red bows up. It's a nice, simple, conservative look. That's pretty much how most of the churches are. None of them really have any sort of lavish exterior decorations. BUT; they all have a manger scene (except for us of course).

As I said though, we're on the opposite side of the street from the bank; in fact the bank is where many folks park on Sunday morning. So; we don't need one. The bank has us covered

I don't think you'd find a manger scene at any big national chain bank or corporation as they'd try to be more inclusive. (Though, most of them have Christmas trees, garland, lights, etc.) This is a local bank, with 4 locations in the immediate area.

I'm not sure if it 'counts', but I love Christmas decorations. So the parsonage has lots of lights, a beautiful colorful tree, etc.! (And the interior of the church is beautifully decorated). I don't have a manger scene at the parsonage either. Never was big on light-up stuff in the yard. And really, even investing the money and time for lights is pretty silly; I live in a small private subdivision alongside a multi-million dollar mansion (Don't get any ideas about the parsonage, that's just where they found land for sale and someone willing to sell it cheap to the church to build a house on!) Nobody goes back here. The road is private and technically not open for public traffic (not that anyone is checking). But I still enjoy the lights so I still put them up for the fun of it! They make me smile when I drive home.
 
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lol... at least those who have accounts at the bank can rest assured that the bank really does care about accuracy... I wonder how hard it was for the bank to find such a true to reality scene amidst all the garishly lighted Rockwell scenes at the Christmas stores.
 
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The Bank.

That's because the area where you live, called flyover country by the "important" people on the coasts, is where real America lives--a place where a bank can set up a nativity scene.
 
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That's because the area where you live, called flyover country by the "important" people on the coasts, is where real America lives--a place where a bank can set up a nativity scene.

I don't honestly see a business putting up a Christian religious display as doing much of anything to help the Christian faith. Would Jesus really want an image of him next to a financial institution? Is anyone really led to faith in Christ by nativity scenes? And I suppose their customers that aren't Christians don't really matter quite as much since there is no Hanukkah display, etc.?
 
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My wife worked for a Muslim physician who put a nativity up in his office every Christmas. He said almost all of his patients were Christians (he assumed, judging by the number of people who wore crosses, said things like 'thank God', etc.), so it made sense to put a nativity up to help them celebrate their holiday.

I'll admit that I don't think businesses putting up Christian symbols is all that 'heroic' nor does it do much of anything. I don't know anyone who has ever said "Oh, my bank has a nativity scene, I'm going to be a Christian now!". But I also don't think it hurts anyone. It's culture. In parts of New York City that are dominantly Jewish you'll see menorahs and other Hanukkah decorations everywhere; and that wouldn't bother me as a Christian.

But; I'm with you on that I'm not ready to give a medal to a bank that displays religious symbols now and then. Symbols, icons, trinkets and idols are not the Christian faith. It's our faith in God and how we live that matters. I think there are going to be those surprised that not only does Jesus not care how many times they wore a cross around their neck, how many bumper stickers they affixed to their car, or how maybe Christian symbols they put up in their home; Jesus is rather offended that they think their faith in God is determined by the idols they craft. Don't get me wrong; there are those with genuine faith who use icons of faith to help them connect or express themselves (I certainly do; I have crosses and symbols, etc.); but I see a dynamic at work in this country where peoples actions, ideas, even beliefs; don't mirror Christianity. But they think they are okay as long as there's a fish on their car, a cross around their neck, and while they're cussing out the manager of the electronics store for being out of stock on something; they remind the manager that it's a good thing they are Christian or they'd be a lot meaner.
 
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Where I lived for one year [Richmond, VA] they had "tacky lights". I haven't seen as many lights in a front yard as I did there. I just have some simple lights on my apartments windows.

My church has nothing on its front lawn but the RCC near me has a manger scene.
 
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I don't honestly see a business putting up a Christian religious display as doing much of anything to help the Christian faith. Would Jesus really want an image of him next to a financial institution?
I don't think he would complain about it.

Is anyone really led to faith in Christ by nativity scenes?
Is that the point? I'm not trying to led someone to faith by the decorations in my yard, but I do like to bear witness to my faith. Surely businessmen and women may desire to do the same. Lots of banks are not large megacorporate institutions, but small family businesses. And even the big corporate ones like to reflect the culture of the community in ways that will be seen in a positive way. Doing a nativity scene well is one of the ways to do that.

And I suppose their customers that aren't Christians don't really matter quite as much since there is no Hanukkah display, etc.?
I don't think that is what Paul had in mind when he spoke about being all things to all people.
 
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