- Jan 17, 2019
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Blessings,
I am new to this forum. I have been trying to reach out for help for years but just don't know how. I have (2) teenage boys (14) and (16). Since there were small I always find myself yelling at them..almost like a jealous feeling. I'm afraid that I have not connected to them and now I'm starting to see results. We hardly speak at all and I'm starting to hate what I've created. I hate that it will only get worse. For example, this whole week when I come home I don't say a word to them. They try to converse with me but I ignore them. I want to talk but words don't come out. I want to have a relationship with them but anger creeps in.
I love taking them out to dinner, family trips and vacations. We speak a little more when we do this but once back home it's the same routine. I really didn't have a relationship with my dad and mother and maybe because my kids have a great relationship with my wife...the anger comes from?
Someone, please help with advice.
Be Blessed
I am new to this forum. I have been trying to reach out for help for years but just don't know how. I have (2) teenage boys (14) and (16). Since there were small I always find myself yelling at them..almost like a jealous feeling. I'm afraid that I have not connected to them and now I'm starting to see results. We hardly speak at all and I'm starting to hate what I've created. I hate that it will only get worse. For example, this whole week when I come home I don't say a word to them. They try to converse with me but I ignore them. I want to talk but words don't come out. I want to have a relationship with them but anger creeps in.
I love taking them out to dinner, family trips and vacations. We speak a little more when we do this but once back home it's the same routine. I really didn't have a relationship with my dad and mother and maybe because my kids have a great relationship with my wife...the anger comes from?
Someone, please help with advice.
Be Blessed