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As I get older I value my alone time and I see my introverted self more and more.

Don't get to use to it, I am alone all the time and it gets old after a while,lol.
 
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I highly value my alone time. I barely tolerate others now. Being alone is VASTLY superior to being with loud, ignorant, ugly, smelly, hateful, violent, rude, disgusting people.

Marcus Aurelius said it best: "Begin the morning by saying to thyself, I shall meet with the busy-body, the ungrateful, arrogant, deceitful, envious, unsocial. All these things happen to them by reason of their ignorance of what is good and evil"
 
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It’s good to know some of you guys feel this way. Lately, I spend most of my free time with people, and rarely have time to myself. I’d like to think I don’t need it, but I think it really helps me get back in tune with myself if I have some downtime every once in a while.
 
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The older I get, the more I appreciate my alone time. As an added bonus, I'm happier and more productive than ever. It truly is an energy source for some of us.

This doesn't mean that I like feeling lonely, or that I don't want to get married someday. Solitude and loneliness are different things. I just prefer people with whom I can be alone together, or who don't try to turn me into an extrovert. I'm not shy, but too much social interaction wears me out.
 
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