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Tuffguy
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NO NO NO NO NO and NOOOOO!!!!Dak man said:Should I stay by her and wait? Or move on and forget about it?
She has dumped you and wants to see other people and you're still talking to her???? DUDE move on, she has. You are getting walked all over. This girl is treating you like trash, the reason is because you are begging her to.
Do not talk to her, move on.
She does not respect you and you let her walk on you. Do you know why she did it? Cause she knew she could get away w/it. Lesson learned my man. Women (and guys) have to know that if you don't like me someone else will. End of story.
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Well thanks for everyone input into the matter. I Talked to her a little bit about it tonight, but she invited me to her church with her family to go the xmas eve. I think I will talk to about it then. She knows that I am best for her but if she doesn't accept it in her heart and mind before I go to school again with her then I pray that god will send me someone worthwhile soon enough!
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Well I followed most people advice here and it really didn't go anywhere. Afterwards I asked her if it would be wierd for her when I dated other people but when I asked why she just kinda ignored the question as always. The way I look at it she either loves me and is scared of that or she really doesn't like me anymore and doesn't want to hurt me but I am guessing the first since she has already hurt me so much. Thanks for everyones input but my view now is I hope it works out but I am not going to count on it and I cannot wait to find someone that really appreciates me.
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that's it man i think you're right.
but let me encourage u in this... you're a patienter man than i - i would not of put up with that as long as you did... she is a lucky girl to have someone wait and be so patient with her.
pity she doesn't realise how lucky she is.
see i think the key to a relationship is always putting the other person first. But the flip side to that is that if only one person is doing that, then that person gets fried. quite literally... they burn out, there is only so much you can give. But in a balanced relationship you receive as well, that gives you more fuel to burn so you can give more.
a balanced relationship builds the two people.
dude you've been fried.... and i reckon u need to find someone to build yourself with.
God Luv ya Mate!
but let me encourage u in this... you're a patienter man than i - i would not of put up with that as long as you did... she is a lucky girl to have someone wait and be so patient with her.
pity she doesn't realise how lucky she is.
see i think the key to a relationship is always putting the other person first. But the flip side to that is that if only one person is doing that, then that person gets fried. quite literally... they burn out, there is only so much you can give. But in a balanced relationship you receive as well, that gives you more fuel to burn so you can give more.
a balanced relationship builds the two people.
dude you've been fried.... and i reckon u need to find someone to build yourself with.
God Luv ya Mate!
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MagicStar723
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MOVE ON! She doesn't love you. I'm sorry but she just doesn't. She is comfortable with you. There is a big diffirence between comfortable and love.
She wants a back-up so when a relationship crashes she has a comfortable guy to fall back on.
Move on.
I would cut off communication for awhile (yes I am aware, you are friends) but she is just making life harder for you.
Move on.
She wants a back-up so when a relationship crashes she has a comfortable guy to fall back on.
Move on.
I would cut off communication for awhile (yes I am aware, you are friends) but she is just making life harder for you.
Move on.
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It's been awhile but I did do what has been said here and I am glad I am enough 'over her' to see how bad of a person she was for doing allot of these things. When I confronted her she tried to keep on alluding to us being together in the future, but I got mad about that and called her out on using me as a backup. Just like to say thank you to anyone that took the time to read my problem and respond to it.
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Dakster,
Lesson learned......Key word in the future is," I don't think I want a relationship, right now..." That's your cue to run as fast as you can. Sorry I caught this late. But good job, bro......
Lesson learned......Key word in the future is," I don't think I want a relationship, right now..." That's your cue to run as fast as you can. Sorry I caught this late. But good job, bro......
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