Almost Methodist?

[MystyRock]

I've posted a few questions on this forum about Methodist churches and beliefs; appreciated the answers and discussions. My husband and I have attended a small Methodist church for almost 3 months, but haven't joined.

Today, at work, I received a layoff notice. My husband has been out of work for over a year. Feeling a little lost - in the past, we've always had a "church family" to lean on for prayer support.

The members at this small church have been very friendly, but we really don't know them very well. I'm still trying to remember everyone's name - seems a little awkward to bring up our situation.

Am I overthinking this?

 

[GraceSeeker]

I've posted a few questions on this forum about Methodist churches and beliefs; appreciated the answers and discussions. My husband and I have attended a small Methodist church for almost 3 months, but haven't joined.

Today, at work, I received a layoff notice. My husband has been out of work for over a year. Feeling a little lost - in the past, we've always had a "church family" to lean on for prayer support.

The members at this small church have been very friendly, but we really don't know them very well. I'm still trying to remember everyone's name - seems a little awkward to bring up our situation.

Am I overthinking this?

Probably.

Ask yourself this question, if this faith community was a simply a group of neighbors who all lived along the same street or in the same cul-d-sac, and you were looking for a house in that part of town and learned there was a house that fit your physical needs and budget, how quickly would you say YES to having them for neighbors?

If you would like to have them for next door and backyard neighbors, and you find the teaching orthodox, then, in the words of John Wesley:
"If your heart is true to my heart as mine is to yours, then give me your hand."

 

[DixieDawn84]

If they don't know your needs then they can't pray for you or help you, if they are able. Even though you are new I'm sure they will be understanding and want to assist you as best they can.

 

[BryanW92]

I've posted a few questions on this forum about Methodist churches and beliefs; appreciated the answers and discussions. My husband and I have attended a small Methodist church for almost 3 months, but haven't joined.

Today, at work, I received a layoff notice. My husband has been out of work for over a year. Feeling a little lost - in the past, we've always had a "church family" to lean on for prayer support.

The members at this small church have been very friendly, but we really don't know them very well. I'm still trying to remember everyone's name - seems a little awkward to bring up our situation.

Am I overthinking this?

If you've been at a Methodist church for 3 months, you're definitely part of the family by now.

 

[MystyRock]

Thanks, everyone. I'm still feeling a little shocked at the unexpected layoff this week. Have also been dealing with my beliefs and faith over the past few months. Feeling quite overwhelmed.

 

[GraceSeeker]

So, get with some people who will love you.

 

[JCFantasy23]

Layoffs are rough and can shake up life some. My prayers are with you

 

[MystyRock]

Layoffs are rough and can shake up life some. My prayers are with you

Thanks. Our life has gone through multiple shake ups in the past 6 months. Surgery, changing churches and we'll probably be moving soon.

We've not "officially" joined the church, but I changed my icon to Methodist. Guess I'm almost there!

We did sign up to attend the confirmation classes starting in a week. Can't wait to learn more about Methodists and asking questions.

When I first started thinking about visiting the church, I didn't know enough about Methodists to even ask many questions. As a Baptist, I didn't have contact with any Methodists (was highly discouraged when I was growing up). I've learned a lot in the past few months - by talking to the pastor and also on this forum.

Looking forward to all the upcoming changes in our lives - at least it won't be boring!

 

[MystyRock]

Something interesting happened at church yesterday. One of the ladies asked if either of us heard anything about a job yet. I told her, no, we were still waiting. She said she was working on the other end (prayer).

Today, my husband received a call about a job and has a phone interview tomorrow. I received an email from a friend about a local job - I called the recruiter and I have an interview tomorrow.

Looking forward to these opportunities tomorrow! Prayers would be appreciated.

 

[GraceSeeker]

Lord, may these interviews bring to a conclusion the need to be searching for employment, with the offering of an interesting, rewarding, and financially viable position.

 

[Historicus]

Praying!

 

[JCFantasy23]

Did you hear back from either of the jobs? I'm in the job hunting boat myself.

 

[MystyRock]

Thanks, everyone! My husband had a job offer today and starts on Monday. My interview went well - they are forwarding my resume to the next level!

 

[GraceSeeker]

I would sing "Hallelujahs", but it's lent. Will you settle for a "Praise Ye the Lord!" ?

 

[Historicus]

Thanks be to God!

 

[MystyRock]

My husband's new job is a 6 month contract and 7 hours away. He's driving there today to be ready to start work Monday morning. He drove the better of our 2 vehicles (the one I have is 20 years old and not working well). So, our son will be driving me around for now. I don't think my husband will be able to come home for Easter - lots of adjustments for us.

Hope to hear something about my job interview this week! Prayers to all the other job seekers out there - for patience and willingness to accept where God leads.

 

[GraceSeeker]

Praying for the ability to adjust that your family needs, and that the challenges of the separation draw you closer together rather than creating more space between you.