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Alimony!

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rainyday

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IHMFIL said:
I apologize Selune!

Okay back to original request: does anyone have actual experience of a divorce settlement where a spouse received alimony in the situation I described earlier!
Yes, I know of friends who've had this experience with their husbands. Will I share them with you? Heck NO! NOPE, NADA, NOT A SNOW BALL'S CHANCE IN TEXAS!

There's this saying about where to find sympathy in the dictionary ... but I can't repeat that here. :sigh:
 
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rainyday said:
Cough it up honey ... you owe him. YOU made him move away and lose his career out of selfish reasons only to dump him ... PAY UP! You know IHMFIL ... you are going to reap what you sew. Not everything is about YOU YOU YOU YOU. You seem very self centered. You've wasted your tears on me. I'll pray that the Holy Spirit enlightens you to have a less hardened heart. :pray:
Rainy, where were you when my husbands arthritis was so bad that he could not dress himself, work,could not sleep,could not scrub himself in the shower, mow the lawn,wash my car, pay the bills, support my nieces by attending school functions, go to family gatherings, drive a car! I had to do everything once upon a time till he was able to find a good rheumatologist who found a combination of meds for him so he could do his share. And this is how he repays me!!!!!!
 
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um no thanks, you are the one who should be reconciling with your husband for honest Godly reasons. Not because you take something I wrote (that you would probably have no honest feelings behind) and put your name on it and give it to your husband with more false intentions. Your promises don't seem very trustworthy anyways. If you really want to write him a letter you seem very good at manipulating words and could probably do it on your own. Tell him your taking him to disney world, lol.
 
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mina said:
um no thanks, you are the one who should be reconciling with your husband for honest Godly reasons. Not because you take something I wrote (that you would probably have no honest feelings behind) and put your name on it and give it to your husband with more false intentions. Your promises don't seem very trustworthy anyways. If you really want to write him a letter you seem very good at manipulating words and could probably do it on your own. Tell him your taking him to disney world, lol.
Mina my motive for doing this would be to show you that my husband is not reasonable, and yes he needs to go to disneyland too but he doesn't trust anyone in my family enough to get in a car with them.
 
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IHMFIL said:
Rainy, where were you when my husbands arthritis was so bad that he could not dress himself, work,could not sleep,could not scrub himself in the shower, mow the lawn,wash my car, pay the bills, support my nieces by attending school functions, go to family gatherings, drive a car! I had to do everything once upon a time till he was able to find a good rheumatologist who found a combination of meds for him so he could do his share. And this is how he repays me!!!!!!
LOL ... Honey, ARE YOU FOR REAL? Where was I? I didn't MARRY THE MAN AS YOU DID!

Remember these vows YOU took to HIM (not me)? "Will you have this man as your lawful wedded husband, to live together in the estate of matrimony? Will you love him, honor him, comfort him, and keep him in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him as long as you both shall live?"

I do believe, since there was a marriage performed, that YOUR answer was "I DO!" So ... don't be looking at me clueless ... again ... open up that dictionary and find sympathy for you will not find it here with me, not on this subject matter.
 
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