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Alcoholics and Addicts Discussion/Support Thread

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stelow said:
Hi cajunlady, feeling much better almost completely well. This was the 8th day of sobriety and I was still experiencing a lot of anger with the same short fuse. God bless you.

This too will pass, just remember to take it one moment at a time..I know for me that is what I have to do because I can't handle a whole 24 hours at a time...Oh, congrats on the 8 days, that is awesome...WAY TO GO... God bless you....
 
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Hey guys. I just wanted to introduce myself over in these parts. I'm a recovering addict, and I've got 13 years clean. Sometimes it seems like a lifetime ago since I was young when everything came to a head. Urges are rare these days, but every so often one comes along and throws me for a loop. But it sure has gotten easier with time.

So I just wanted to say hi and tell everyone struggling that I'm rooting for you and praying for you and hoping that today will be a good day for us
 
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cajunlady said:
This too will pass, just remember to take it one moment at a time..I know for me that is what I have to do because I can't handle a whole 24 hours at a time...Oh, congrats on the 8 days, that is awesome...WAY TO GO... God bless you....

Thanks cajunlady, this is one mother right now ready to pull my hair out, what I have left. Starting my 10th day of sobriety, the return of some my suppressed feelings seems overwhelming. God bless you.
 
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Hello everyone, how is it going? I have something I need to talk about. I work for a man that is in recovery and he hires a lot of people in halfway houses to help them out...Well one of my co-workers had just graduated from the halfway house and 2 days later relapsed on crack-cocaine. When he does show up to work he always has the same clothes on and has lost like 20 pounds in one week...I tried to help him but he doesn't want the help at the moment. I need to vent about this because it took me back to when I was drugging and has scared the daylights out of me. I have to hold on to Jesus with all my heart and all of my soul to deal with this...My boss finally told him that he has to get help or lose his job, Thank you Jesus...Sometimes I don't like being reminded of where I was but I know that I shouldn't forget or I could easily go back that route...Yesterday this guy called me on the job and asked me to bring him to the bank and I told him no. I CANNOT and WILL NOT go because I can't be around people getting high (especially people high on crack, as that was my drug of choice)...I told him when he wants a ride to detox that I will bring him..Please pray that he gets the help he needs soon. Thank you for allowing me to share...God bless you all...
 
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That's a tough situation. It's hard to discern when it's appropriate to help and when it's not. I think you made a good decision when you said "No" to his request. You can always refer him to another person such as a man within the program or a man from your church. Personally, I have never felt comfortable helping somebody of the opposite sex especially when by myself.

Thanks for sharing this, and I will be keeping you and this situation in my thoughts and prayers.
 
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stelow said:
Thanks cajunlady, this is one mother right now ready to pull my hair out, what I have left. Starting my 10th day of sobriety, the return of some my suppressed feelings seems overwhelming. God bless you.

Hi stelow, how is everything going? I hope you are doing good. May God bless you...
 
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Thank you SOTK, God bless...
 
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SOTK said:
I thought I would check in with you all. How's it going?

Way to go on the sobriety, stelow! Keep turning it over to God!

Thanks SOTK for starting this thread and keeping it going, today is my 27th day of sobriety. I had no choice in the matter, God has enlighten me from the blindness Satan had on me that was keeping me bound to drugs. Thank you cajunlady for your prayers and encouragement. Thank you Father for your son Jesus that sets us free. As you can tell by my writing I am doing much better.

God bless you all.
 
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i have been clean and sober since Nov of last year. Well after losing my family almost 2 years ago, the milestones still really bother me, My brother's birthday is on April 19th and just thinking about that caused me to go off the deep end 2 days ago. I was so wasted and depressed I could not even go to school the next day and I am the teacher. I hate the fact that these milestones keep sending me back to the bottle. I should be able to move on with my life but I just can not seem to. If this is what happens 3 weeks before his birthday how am I gonna cope with the actual day or even worse the 2 year annivesary on May 6. I can not believe that they have been gone for almost 2 years. What I would not give to just talk to my family one more time to tell them I am sorrry and that I love them.
 
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