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KeilCoppes
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I recently received an unsolicited mail from someone significantly younger than myself. The upshot of the message was "I'm looking for a committed Christian man to marry, are you him?" Two of her older sisters had married within the last year or so, both to older men (10 years and more older), and were living very happily.
(before adding more background, no sweeping generalizations are intended by the author, so no flames, please. And please don't flame her, she expressed her own experience in a non-Christian world, meaning well. :^) )
It seemed that among those she had met in their early twenties tended to be irresponsible, always wanting to do what was in style and what they called cool, rather than what God wanted. She was more interested in someone stable and with a good head on their shoulders and a little older than someone young and worldly.
So this is my first poll: How much do you think age differences should factor into relationships and marriage? What do you see as the wise boundaries?
(not that I am pursuing this, but my curiosity is roused on the topic. :^) )
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"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful" Col 3:15
(before adding more background, no sweeping generalizations are intended by the author, so no flames, please. And please don't flame her, she expressed her own experience in a non-Christian world, meaning well. :^) )
It seemed that among those she had met in their early twenties tended to be irresponsible, always wanting to do what was in style and what they called cool, rather than what God wanted. She was more interested in someone stable and with a good head on their shoulders and a little older than someone young and worldly.
So this is my first poll: How much do you think age differences should factor into relationships and marriage? What do you see as the wise boundaries?
(not that I am pursuing this, but my curiosity is roused on the topic. :^) )
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"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful" Col 3:15