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OhhJim said:
Send one of those friends over to tell her that you like her but don't want to embarrass yourself, yada yada. Then, if she isn't interested, you can always claim that he misunderstood you, and you never meant for him to talk to her. This is how people your age do it, if you're too shy to come right out with it. Now go!!!

She may only just want you as an friend only. That people your age can act like that for no strange reason or it's just their personality perhaps.
 
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winglovesall said:
Some people like me can be shy - but if you are never open - no one will like you, know you and understand about your feelings. So, I hope you boost your confidence - challenge yourself and follow the path that God has planned for you!

Thanks my friend as I know you will!! :amen:
 
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Yep, definitely. Thanks!

I have changed a lot.

Even cousins and relatives and family- you have to open yourself up - they would never know what you want if you don't say it out.

And I'm struggling with that sometimes, but is continuing to try my best.

The age of discovery is still here - The more and more people we meet, the more we discover - it's just explorers in the "Age of Exploration/Discovery". We are also trying to discover more about God - our heavenly father.
 
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