After Youth.....

[Raptor]

Well last night i was at youth tuedays is when we help the community and stuff anyways we where walking up the street to go to where we were going to, it was raining and the girl i like was standing waiting to cross the street and i put my Umbrella over her head so she would not get wet she kinda laphed and said thanks and smiled at me lol do you think that looked like i flirted with her ? then when we went back to the church we all kinda just hanged out for abit there was just like 4 guys and 2 girls there 1 of them was the girl i liked,

Then my friend asked if i still liked the same girl i did 4 months i said no, and turned my head to look at the girl i liked and she was like staring at me lol then she said should we leave for a min to let you guys talk.

after that i told her i wanted to gain like 30 pounds because i am abit skinny, then she said i hope its muscle and not fat , she said your good the way you are skinny do you think she likes me otherwise why would she care if i gained weight or not ? i have known her for about 1 year shes going away on a trip for 12 days in 2 weeks , i will see her like 4 times before she goes away how could i show her i like her with out telling her directly thanks for your help

 

[OhhJim]

Have your friend talk to her, and find out how she feels about you.



(Or, get her name tattoed on your arm, with a nice heart.)

 

[NeoTheOne]

Or, get her name tattoed on your arm, with a nice heart , thats a real great idea lol maybe i will do that

 

[beetlequeendiva]

Raptor - there isn't generally a way of telling someone that you like them without actually coming out and telling them!! LOL dont' be so nervous about it, just be yourself and if it's meant to happen it'll happen!!

 

[Jamza]

after that i told her i wanted to gain like 30 pounds because i am abit skinny, then she said i hope its muscle and not fat , she said your good the way you are skinny do you think she likes me otherwise why would she care if i gained weight or not ?

Lol I can tell you, she doesn't really mind about weight, lol its not about weight, its simple flirting to say she likes you! Best thing would be a subtle return compliment. Keep talking to her and paying lots of attention to her etc, and she's yours!

 

[Sketcher]

I think it's pretty obvious to her that you like her. You may as well ask her out already, and if she says "no" she was just being her friendly self the whole time. I'm personally a fan of being discreet about this stuff and getting to know her as a friend for several months first, but since the discreet part is out the window you might as well. She would have more respect for you if you just asked her out and got it over with, regardless of her answer.

 

[JPPT1974]

Just be yourself and don't get so nervous. Be honest though as well as don't come off a phony. Also try to be kind and sweet.

 

[JiminyCricket]

Based on your description, it looks pretty obvious that you like her. She's probably wondering what you're waiting for. I agree with twistedsketch, if you tell her directly, she will probably respect you more. If you don't tell her directly, it sets up a bad situation of mind games and potential hurt feelings.

You don't have anything to lose and if she were to say no, she'll probably be flattered that you cared enough to risk asking....that would make anyone feel good about themselves.

 

[Breetai]

Here's a hint:

If the girl doesn't critisize your grammar, then she digs you.

If you get her name tatooed on your arm and she thinks that it's cute, then she really digs you. You are one groovy cat.

 

[RED that's ME]

Why not just get to know her as a friend and pray about it and ask God to give you wisdom instead of looking for a sign. Too many people try to rush into a relationship with a aquaintance and that causes problems most of the time.

Any great relationship is worth building right. When you build a house you don't try to put the roof up first or walls you lay the foundation for it to stand first, same way with a relationship.

 

[Tenorvoice]

Red that was an awsome comparison

 

[Raptor]

about grammer she said when i was talking about somthing that i was smart she has never criticized me ,

when we where standing waiting to get in a Christian concert there was a big lineup at the door the rest of the youth where up ahead and some how me and her where right in the middle jamed in the line up , then she came up behind me and said * this is the closest we have ever ben before* and kinda laphed and smiled at me i said ya and smiled and then she said i will hold on your shirt , was she flirting or was she just being nice ?

 

[Jamza]

Lol! You do know the awnser to that don't you? I had to check! Because that is such obvious flirtation...I'd ask her soon if you do like her because she can't get a lot more blatent and she may get irritated if you don't.

Go for it its obviously fine and you know it!

 

[WITNESS8]

Wooo...is that what flirting looks like?...Haha, I did that the other day...LOL...Hmmm

 

[Raptor]

i am just taking it abit slower because 2 of friends said they think she liked another guy at youth too but she never flirts or sits beside him so i dont think there realy right , i will just try to show her i am the better guy

 

[Jamza]

Wooo...is that what flirting looks like?...Haha, I did that the other day...LOL...Hmmm

If you know the other person well then it wouldn't look like that, but in this case I do think its quite blatent.

 

[Breetai]

about grammer she said when i was talking about somthing that i was smart she has never criticized me ,

You completely missed the point, smart guy.

when we where standing waiting to get in a Christian concert there was a big lineup at the door the rest of the youth where up ahead and some how me and her where right in the middle jamed in the line up , then she came up behind me and said * this is the closest we have ever ben before* and kinda laphed and smiled at me i said ya and smiled and then she said i will hold on your shirt , was she flirting or was she just being nice ?

I don't think that she likes you as more than a friend. She's obviously giving no signs at all.

Notice the use of capital letters at the beginning of sentences? Run on sentences aren't very fun to read either. Just a few helpful hints for posting online.

 

[JPPT1974]

about grammer she said when i was talking about somthing that i was smart she has never criticized me ,

You completely missed the point, smart guy.

I don't think that she likes you as more than a friend. She's obviously giving no signs at all.

Notice the use of capital letters at the beginning of sentences? Run on sentences aren't very fun to read either. Just a few helpful hints for posting online.

Hey I use capital letters and run on sentences as well. So I ain't the only one that does it to. And she does like you as more of an friend as friendship is more valued than an relationship even.

 

[winglovesall]

I don't mind whether you use Capital letters or not - but it's more better and more easier to read.

 

[OhhJim]

i am just taking it abit slower because 2 of friends said they think she liked another guy at youth too but she never flirts or sits beside him so i dont think there realy right , i will just try to show her i am the better guy

Send one of those friends over to tell her that you like her but don't want to embarrass yourself, yada yada. Then, if she isn't interested, you can always claim that he misunderstood you, and you never meant for him to talk to her. This is how people your age do it, if you're too shy to come right out with it. Now go!!!