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Hi there @rubyglitter,

So sorry you're all going through some tough emotional times. Obviously, this is my sole opinion so, i apologize if there's no light shed out of my reply.

Some folk handle pressure or depression or any rough & tough times differently. Lies might come out as a way to cope. If he's not really ill and does not have cancer, he might just like the attention that people offer when there's devastating news.

I won't say is okay to lie, but *depending of what his actions are, a friend sticks around regardless. I'm sure most of us have had or have friends that really stretch us thin, but if (specially) they are in need of a helping hand or an ear to listen or even just to offer emotional presence...ya know where I'm getting with this.

All in all, I hope the Lord blesses you with patience. It's a toughy, but we get only what we can handle.

Blessings
 
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