Hello,
Well firstly this is because i am really concerned about a friend who has been dating a guy for around a year and im running out of supportive words and encouragement. I just wondered what others thought of the situation and wether there is any advice or biblical support i can give her.
Basically the person is a very hard worker and is constantly putting university and her work first which is great but she expects her boyfriend to be there for her constantly especially when things are bad for her, yet if her boyfriend has a problem she won't do the same. She wonders then why he cant support her and gets really upset.
Also she had a big arguement with one of his friends and she doesnt understand why her boyfriend can still be friends with this girl. This continues and causes problems because he doesnt invite her out with his friends because he doesnt want tension. She then gets annoyed and feels he is "choosing them over her."
Finally he has recently begun to put his work first which shes constantly gone on about and now shes complaining because he doesnt have time for her.
Urghh this sounds like im moaning but im not i just want to support my friend and have no clue what to do any more
Well firstly this is because i am really concerned about a friend who has been dating a guy for around a year and im running out of supportive words and encouragement. I just wondered what others thought of the situation and wether there is any advice or biblical support i can give her.
Basically the person is a very hard worker and is constantly putting university and her work first which is great but she expects her boyfriend to be there for her constantly especially when things are bad for her, yet if her boyfriend has a problem she won't do the same. She wonders then why he cant support her and gets really upset.
Also she had a big arguement with one of his friends and she doesnt understand why her boyfriend can still be friends with this girl. This continues and causes problems because he doesnt invite her out with his friends because he doesnt want tension. She then gets annoyed and feels he is "choosing them over her."
Finally he has recently begun to put his work first which shes constantly gone on about and now shes complaining because he doesnt have time for her.
Urghh this sounds like im moaning but im not i just want to support my friend and have no clue what to do any more