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Hi Mermaid! You will be in my prayers. I haven't lost a loved one to death, only to divorce. I do have a friend named Dan and God led him to a Godly woman in a year. I would say that's a record on anyones scale but nothing is impossible with God. Do you have close female friendships?
 
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Hi Mermaid! You will be in my prayers. I haven't lost a loved one to death, only to divorce. I do have a friend named Dan and God led him to a Godly woman in a year. I would say that's a record on anyones scale but nothing is impossible with God. Do you have close female friendships?
I do have some very close friends, but as hard as they try, they can't fill the empty voids in my life. I pray about this every day, and I believe in my heart that God has someone very special for me. I know I need to be patient and wait on Him.
 
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I do have some very close friends, but as hard as they try, they can't fill the empty voids in my life. I pray about this every day, and I believe in my heart that God has someone very special for me. I know I need to be patient and wait on Him.
I know through some of my circumstances, the emptiness and pain. A woman I know is a widower and she married the next man she had a relationship with. He was an angry abuser who threw rocks at her and various other horrendous things. I need you to know that you have the chance to have a deeper and more loving relationship with Jesus. Please draw closer to Him and lean on the women in your church Body!
 
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I know through some of my circumstances, the emptiness and pain. A woman I know is a widower and she married the next man she had a relationship with. He was an angry abuser who threw rocks at her and various other horrendous things. I need you to know that you have the chance to have a deeper and more loving relationship with Jesus. Please draw closer to Him and lean on the women in your church Body!
I am a Born Again Christian, always putting God first and foremost in my life. This includes my partner, and in return would expect no less of him. Jesus is the head of my household. It is very important that He also be the head of the relationship He brings together for me. It’s a beautiful thing when two people are brought together by our Father in Heaven, knowing that it is His will we are submitting to and not our own. It is very important to me to follow Jesus and submit to His will in our lives, allowing God’s guiding hand to direct every step I take as He leads me through the journey in life He has chosen for me.
 
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I know through some of my circumstances, the emptiness and pain. A woman I know is a widower and she married the next man she had a relationship with. He was an angry abuser who threw rocks at her and various other horrendous things. I need you to know that you have the chance to have a deeper and more loving relationship with Jesus. Please draw closer to Him and lean on the women in your church Body!
I was also married to a verbally and mentally abusive husband for 26 years, so I'm very caucious regarding new relationships.
 
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Hi 1Cor13v13,
I'm Mermaid. You sent me a private message yesterday. I had trouble logging in so I registered again as Mermaid1. I sent you a message on your IM @yahoo.
Okay, thanks I'll look. How are you today? You have a deep relationship with Christ! Praise God! Thank you Jesus!

Loving you in His name!

Gary
 
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I was also married to a verbally and mentally abusive husband for 26 years, so I'm very caucious regarding new relationships.
Yes, if you read my testimony, you will see that I was one of those evil men. Now God has changed my heart to His and I must warn men and women who they are and how to identify them. I once caused much pain, but now I'm used in Jesus name! Thank you Jesus!

God bless, I'll check my IM.
 
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Yes, if you read my testimony, you will see that I was one of those evil men. Now God has changed my heart to His and I must warn men and women who they are and how to identify them. I once caused much pain, but now I'm used in Jesus name! Thank you Jesus!

God bless, I'll check my IM.
I have read your profile, and I must admit, it did frighten me a bit when I read the same that I had been through. I do believe in miracles! God is merciful and gracious. He loves us so much that He gave His only Son Jesus so that our sins may be forgiven and we might have life. God does forgive us through His goodness and grace, and when we accept Jesus into our hearts, we are made new creatures in Christ Jesus, and all the old ways and the person you were before pass away. They are all left at the foot of the cross. Knowing and believing this with all my heart took all the fear away. I'd like to stay in touch.
 
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I have read your profile, and I must admit, it did frighten me a bit when I read the same that I had been through. I do believe in miracles! God is merciful and gracious. He loves us so much that He gave His only Son Jesus so that our sins may be forgiven and we might have life. God does forgive us through His goodness and grace, and when we accept Jesus into our hearts, we are made new creatures in Christ Jesus, and all the old ways and the person you were before pass away. They are all left at the foot of the cross. Knowing and believing this with all my heart took all the fear away. I'd like to stay in touch.
I answered your email and Jesus perferct love casts out fear! For fear is the evilones friend and best wepon against those who believe. Once we are in Gods will, there is no fear, and it is replaced with His love! Praise Him! If you ever feel uneasy about anything we can stop corresponding. With Gods help and others on this forum who love God, we can walk hand in hand with Jesus up the path to His heavenly throne!

Praise and thanks be to God the Father and His Son Jesus who died to save the world and not condem it!

Amen!
 
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I answered your email and Jesus perferct love casts out fear! For fear is the evilones friend and best wepon against those who believe. Once we are in Gods will, there is no fear, and it is replaced with His love! Praise Him! If you ever feel uneasy about anything we can stop corresponding. With Gods help and others on this forum who love God, we can walk hand in hand with Jesus up the path to His heavenly throne!

Praise and thanks be to God the Father and His Son Jesus who died to save the world and not condem it!

Amen!

I agree with you completely. These are couple of scriptures that I find reasuring and comforting.

Psalm 23 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me

Ps 27:1 The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The LORD is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

He is indeed my refuse and strength in times of trouble!

By the way, I feel very comfortable corresponding with you.
 
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I answered your email and Jesus perferct love casts out fear! For fear is the evilones friend and best wepon against those who believe. Once we are in Gods will, there is no fear, and it is replaced with His love! Praise Him! If you ever feel uneasy about anything we can stop corresponding. With Gods help and others on this forum who love God, we can walk hand in hand with Jesus up the path to His heavenly throne!

Praise and thanks be to God the Father and His Son Jesus who died to save the world and not condem it!

Amen!
I haven't recieved your reply to my email yet. It must have gotten hung up in the transfer.
 
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