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Just because you have Borderline Personality Disorder does not mean you are not responsible for your behavior. I hope you are in psychotherapy. My therapist has held me responsible for everything I have ever done, and I also have Bipolar Disorder. Sin is sin, and having BPD doesn't free us from our responsibility to obey God.

I have been in Alcoholics Anonymous for 22 years. My therapist never allowed me to get away with my relapses, or other sins. At the end of my last relapse, I ended up in rehab and the psych hospital. I totally surrendered to the Lord and told him whatever His will is, I will obey. I have not had a drink since January 14, 2010. I also have completed all 12 of AA's Steps.

I suggest you get to an AA meeting and start working all of AA's 12 Steps. Do a 4th and 5th Step and take inventory of all your sins, and confess and repent of them.

BPD is not a regular mental illness. It is a personality disorder, which means our thinking, feeling and behavior are deeply pervasive and maladaptive patterns which we have learned. Since we learned them, usually in childhood as coping strategies for trauma or abuse. Since we learned them, we can unlearn them. For me, it has taken painful therapy, and constant AA meetings and psychotherapy with a therapist who practices Cognitive Behavioral Therapist.

God bless.

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