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Yasic,
I believe that even in situations of rape, even though they may be hard to deal with, it is not the woman's or child's fault that this happened to them. It is still hard to say who has the right to life here. Even in situations of rape, the child has a right to their life. The baby is separate from the woman, both have rights and both should be respected.

If the rape is reported the doctor gives you, the day after pill, this prevents implantation of a fertilized egg. Therefore it's not abortion. I think in cases of rape it really is up to the mother and if mom decides to keep the baby more power to her.
 
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I understand what you're stating,
I knew this woman who was pregnant and also found out that she was going to have cancer. The doctors asked if she wanted to abort and she said no because she wanted to keep the baby. The doctors said she might die if she does not have abort the baby but she refused to.
I think that the doctors can also misdignose a person but that's just my opinion on the topic. That is a hard topic to deal with and I'm not sure of my stance on it.
I just believe that both the woman and the fetus have a right to live.

I am pro-choice anti-abortion. I myself would never get an abortion unless it threatened my life, such coming down with cancer at an early stage of pregnancy or it is ectopic. If I was ever raped I would take the pills the doctor gave me to keep from becoming pregnant.

But because I don't know other women's situations then I have no right to tell them whether they should get an abortion or not. If a friend came to me for advice, I would advise her to not get an abortion and tell her how I could help her during her pregnancy and after. Or help her find a couple who wants to adopt if she chooses to do that. If she decides to get an abortion anyway. I'm her friend and I would not abandon her in her hour of need. I would be there for her and support her through the abortion. Because it is her choice.
 
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Even though I have listed above that I would not get an abortion in anyway, I do respect other people's decisions on how they live their life. I do not like the action of abortion but if a friend were to come up to me and tell me that she had one, I wouldn't shut her down because of what I believe. I would simply support her through it because she chose to do so.
I believe that being supportive in people's decisions and actions are important and that we have to be supportive and help those who have gone through with an abortion.
 
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Yasic,
I feel that both of us have different views on this subject and I am willing to see your side and respect it. What you have said is that woman have a choice whether or not to get an abortion and I have stated that the woman and fetus are both separate so the woman doesn't have a choice necessarily to have an abortion. I see that both of our sides have brought up valid points from both sides and I respect your opinion and beliefs on this subject. Not to dodge the question or anything but I want to bring up another question about abortion...Does abortion lead woman to emotion, physical and psychological risks?

I can certainly understand your view as well.

And to your question: Of course it does, as does having an unwanted child. Both have their share of risks and issues. Which set has higher risks depends on the situation at hand.
 
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Yes that is true. There are emotional, physical risks to everything and I respect your view on this topic.

Is there anything else that you would like to discuss regarding abortion?

Well I have been discussing this topic for years, have engaged in public debates, and even once gave a speech in front of 250 people on this very topic. I discussed this issue from just about every angle imaginable. If you have anything to bring up or ask, I am more than happy to help out but I myself am quite set.
 
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I can see that you are a lot more educated on this topic than I am.

I was wondering what you thought about the types of abortion.

Sometimes I wish I weren't. If I spent the same amount of effort that I put into abortion, atheism, and homosexuality debates and research, into say... economic theory, I would be so much better off in life :p

I don't quite understand your question about the types of abortion though? While I do have a a basic overview of the various types of abortion, especially lots of stats on the so called 'partial birth abortions' as well as some knowledge of how Russians in the 80's did abortion as well as their very high complications rates back then, my specialty is in the ethics and legalities of abortions and not the medical procedures (which matter little in terms of its legal or moral status).

Is there a particular thing you would like me to address?
 
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Hm.. Well I was wanting just to address how you felt about the types of abortion. I know that doesn't make what I'm trying to get across clear.. I guess I want to know how you feel about partial birth abortion and abortions done after 21 or 22 weeks (which is what you stated was than a person or in personhood)
 
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Hm.. Well I was wanting just to address how you felt about the types of abortion. I know that doesn't make what I'm trying to get across clear.. I guess I want to know how you feel about partial birth abortion and abortions done after 21 or 22 weeks (which is what you stated was than a person or in personhood)

Well I am against all abortions done past 21/22 weeks except for medical reasons, so I think them to be wrong... What kind of details would you like me to add on top of those?
 
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I just wanted to know your stance on that stuff.
I wasn't quite sure what you believed but that is good.
Thank for you for discussing with me about abortion. Your opinion has helped me to understand and to taken into consideration a lot of things about abortion.
I wish you the best in your future with this topic.
Thank you once again.
 
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I just wanted to know your stance on that stuff.
I wasn't quite sure what you believed but that is good.
Thank for you for discussing with me about abortion. Your opinion has helped me to understand and to taken into consideration a lot of things about abortion.
I wish you the best in your future with this topic.
Thank you once again.

Always happy to have a good discussion, take care of yourself!
 
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Hi yasic, I would like to provide my thoughts on two things that you mentioned here. You wrote

"It is more than just 9 months, it is 9 months with medical risks, emotional harm, and a host of other issues.

And even if it were just 9 months, the child still has no right to mooch off an innocent victim against her consent."

The way that you said the women was an innocent victim, I'm guessing that you would place the fetus as an unwanted invader and their being their an injustified interference?

Bodily integrity doesn’t overrule the right to life unless in done self-defence. Which presumes that the child is attacking its mother by gestating and causing the pregnancy. This is nonsense. Your own child in gestation is completely the natural result of sexual intercourse of the parents. The child did not force the parents to create a being who needed their womb. You cannot be acting in aggression if someone elses actions beyond your control forced you to be in someone elses property, without your consent, and without the ability to move elsewhere. You are completely innocent and not worthy of capital punishment. The guilt and responsibility of you being there is completely the result of other people-in this case the same people who are accusing you of trespassing and claiming they have a right to cause fatal injury due to said, tresspassing. You can’t kill someone who is isn’t there by their own decision and actions.

There is also the bizarre turnaround where in the third trimester the women is unable to claim ‘self-defence against attack on bodily integrity’ even though nothing in the situation has changed. The ‘attacker’ ‘trespasser’ what have you, is still on private property without permission, places even more demands on her than at the beginning of the pregnancy and now, having reached viability, doesn’t actually have to be there. Yet at viability, the charges of ‘attacker’ ‘invader’ and ‘trespasser’ have been dropped, because apparently this attacker suddenly has gained more rights to not be removed, even though they are unwanted and they can clearly move. Quite clearly ‘bodily sovereignty’ is not absolute. But why should a right to life have to give way for ‘right to expel an unwanted invader’ at the beginning of an attack, but the complete opposite at the end of the attack when more force is being applied? If someone is more of an intrusion, they get less right to be there, especially when, after viability, they do not have to be there. When someone can move off a property and go elsewhere trespassing charges not increased to get that person off safely but are suddenly tailed off and eventually dropped altogether. But when someone is incapable of not being in private property and unable to move elsewhere, (not out of spite or laziness) but out of a physical disability ‘trespasser’ charges are applied. Bizarre.
Surely ‘trespassing’ is only imposed upon people who have the physical ability to understand privacy and are not forced to be upon private land without the ability to move and survive outside of it, but those who choose to break the law and put themselves on the land, though their being there is not crucial to their survival.

Pregnancy is designed to keep the baby safe from an environment that, at the moment, is inappropriate and hostile for it to be in. Pregnancy is designed to be this ‘attacker’ safe. Pregnancy is designed to keep this ‘attacker’ safe on the property rather than outside of it. This fact does not make sense is the baby is an ‘attacker.’ It would make no biological sense for the biological offspring to be an ‘attacker’ to its biological parents, particularly in mammals where the reproductive setup is the offspring inside the parent for the first part of its life. Pregnancy is not an allergic reaction as your body fights the intrusion. In fact, the natural response to the women’s body is supplying the means in which this ‘attacker’gets stronger, rather than weaker. Women have periods because their womb has been prepared for the baby to attatch and has been prepared to make this attatchment easy for it to do so. Its pretty clear that pregnancy is not an unjustified attack but a natural happening that the body expects and is prepared to encourage the pregnancy to continue. The default position of your body (or her, I dunno if you’re a guy), as a mammal, is that the baby is not an ‘unwanted invader.’ If humans were reptiles, or fish, then I would see yout point, because then your offspring living inside of you would be an invader. But humans do not lay eggs or do they disperse gametes into water to be fertilised, they gestate.

You also wrote;

I do disagree with you in that if it is decided that personhood starts at conception that a woman has no right to remove it, if she got pregnant against her will (rape). In this case alone, the woman is not responsible for the existence of the child and in this case the right to bodily integrity does in fact apply, and overrules the right of life of the child.

By current law (and rightfully so IMO), a person cannot be forced to supply their body to keep someone else alive (unless responsible for the other persons condition in certain situations), this includes the use of the womb, blood, kidneys, and the like for a baby.

I agree with your statement that people cannot be forced to supply body parts for donation, but I don’t see how this applies to the condition of a mother pregnant with her child. You noted that some people can be forced to supply the remedy for the person’s condition if that condition is the result of their actions. First of all I think I would like to bring to the table that sexual intercourse can bring into creation a child and not only that, its always a child a) that has a need b)tat help is specifically and naturally satisfied by the womb. The womb itself is particularly designed for this child to use during this particular need. As a women, in my body, I have a particular organ that it specifically just for my offspring’s use during embryonic and fetal development. The womb is not crucially designed to keep me alive, it is however, specifically designed and crucial for my offspring’s survival, should I do the thing that makes any. This is not the case with any other organs in my body. None of them are designed purposely for a strangers, even a close family’s use. They are a second-best fit during sickness or injury. The fetus is not using the womb out of sickness or injury but out of necessity of being created, and not having the abilty to be created functioning fully independantly, only with needs.

I would also like to bring to attention, again, to the point that you made that sometimes we can force people, their time and attention to bring us out of danger if they have caused to place us in harm’s way. The women is responsible for her child’s condition of needing the use of her womb. The child, once been concieved, is incapable of being without need and without the abilty to have that need satisfied by anyone else. It’s a package deal. There is also that the child is always created(and created with a need) without its consent. This is causing someone to be completely dependant on yourself in a situation of their life or death, and all this without their consent. This is placing someone in harms way, therefore because you have placed someone in harm’s way you are obligated to get them out of it as safely as possibly. You owe them, they do not owe you. They certainly do not owe you their death to get you out of the responsibility of sacrificing your time and emotions and use of your own body, whatever it entails, in order to get them in their own two feet safely.

Also in the case of refusal of giving a kidney/ blood whatever is always before the possible joining of the reciever to that organ. In the case of non-consent to your offspring using your womb, this is expressed only after the person expressing this has, in one fail swoop, caused the need in the reciever for their organ specifically and has made the reciever use the organ already. Package deal. This is also done without the knowledge and consent of the reciever, but done in knowledge by the donor. The non-consent of the donor is a non-issue here because the donor themselves, before they expressed their non-consent, did the thing themselves that physically made the reciever start using the organ, therefore consent was given. Change your mind? Tough. No one is allowed to take their blood/kidney back, after they physically let ther reciever start using their organ. And if the reciever had be made to die-not naturally out of the orginal disease or injury but out of applied force- before they are removed out of physical attactment of the donated organ that you want back-even worse. Abortion is not ‘refusal to give aid or charity’ therefore letting strangers die of natural causes, its applied physical force to our biological children to stop them getting what they need to get to independence after we, knowingly, created them and specifically depedant specifically on us. This breaks three priniciples, none of which are done in charity or acts of a good samaritan. The enforcement of this upon everyone is not slavery, its how society works.

Parental obligation to provide an environment that adds to our children’s wellbeing.
Non-aggression obligation
Obligation to do what is in your power to deliver people that you’ve put in harms way to safety.

If some humans do not receive this treatment, or it is said that in fact, its not wrong if they get the complete opposite, then they are victims of severe discrimation and injustice. You also mentioned the issue of rape which I understand is even more difficult to explain and may conflict with the premises brought up in the arguments above. If you would like to hear my views, you are welcome to ask for them and I'll give them seperately, but I've been typing all day and am quite tired. :) Take care.
 
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Hi yasic, I would like to provide my thoughts on two things that you mentioned here. [/quote
Hello Oryx :wave:
I am happy to discuss the issues you raised with you.

[quoteYou wrote

"It is more than just 9 months, it is 9 months with medical risks, emotional harm, and a host of other issues.

And even if it were just 9 months, the child still has no right to mooch off an innocent victim against her consent."
Before we continue, I would like to point out that the views I am expressing here are conditional devil's advocate views, and not the ones personally hold in the abortion debates.

My reason for being pro-choice up to 22 weeks is due to my belief that a fetus is not a person until that point. This has nothing to do with the right to bodily integrity or anything other than the point.

All arguments I expressed were one where we take the assumption that prior too 22 weeks, the fetus is ruled a person, and that the fetus was caused by rape: should abortion be continued then.

Anyways, on with the criticisms :)

The way that you said the women was an innocent victim, I'm guessing that you would place the fetus as an unwanted invader and their being their an injustified interference?
I would place the woman and fetus as innocent victims and the male rapist as the unwanted offender.

Bodily integrity doesn’t overrule the right to life unless in done self-defence. Which presumes that the child is attacking its mother by gestating and causing the pregnancy
Not true. If two innocent victims have basic human rights conflicting due to an arrangement, the right which involves the 2 people removing themselves from an arrangement triumphs over one that forces them to remain in an arrangement.

If two people get operated on by a mad scientist, such that the head of one is places (against the wills of both victims) on the body of the other, the other may choose to have the first head removed, even if it spells certain death (sorry for the outlandish example, can't think of a more appropriate one for pregnancy)

This is nonsense. Your own child in gestation is completely the natural result of sexual intercourse of the parents. The child did not force the parents to create a being who needed their womb.
In the case of rape, the mother is not at fault. Were it consenting sexual intercourse, then I would agree that the child is there due to the actions of the mother, and as such the mother has 0 right to remove or in any other way harm the child.

You cannot be acting in aggression if someone elses actions beyond your control forced you to be in someone elses property, without your consent, and without the ability to move elsewhere. You are completely innocent and not worthy of capital punishment.
It is not punishment. It is simply an actions whose unintended consequences happen to result in your death. If it were possible to remove the child without killing it, I would support such an option.

There is also the bizarre turnaround where in the third trimester the women is unable to claim ‘self-defence against attack on bodily integrity’ even though nothing in the situation has changed. The ‘attacker’ ‘trespasser’ what have you, is still on private property without permission, places even more demands on her than at the beginning of the pregnancy and now, having reached viability, doesn’t actually have to be there. Yet at viability, the charges of ‘attacker’ ‘invader’ and ‘trespasser’ have been dropped, because apparently this attacker suddenly has gained more rights to not be removed, even though they are unwanted and they can clearly move.
This is where you confuse two arguments together. It is my actual views on the abortion debate that place the third trimester as the time a fetus turns into a person and therefore gets rights. It has nothing to do with bodily integrity and in the hypothetical argument I am supporting, nothing magical changes at the third trimester at all.

Pregnancy is designed to keep the baby safe from an environment that, at the moment, is inappropriate and hostile for it to be in. Pregnancy is designed to be this ‘attacker’ safe. Pregnancy is designed to keep this ‘attacker’ safe on the property rather than outside of it. This fact does not make sense is the baby is an ‘attacker.’ It would make no biological sense for the biological offspring to be an ‘attacker’ to its biological parents, particularly in mammals where the reproductive setup is the offspring inside the parent for the first part of its life. Pregnancy is not an allergic reaction as your body fights the intrusion. In fact, the natural response to the women’s body is supplying the means in which this ‘attacker’gets stronger, rather than weaker. Women have periods because their womb has been prepared for the baby to attatch and has been prepared to make this attatchment easy for it to do so. Its pretty clear that pregnancy is not an unjustified attack but a natural happening that the body expects and is prepared to encourage the pregnancy to continue. The default position of your body (or her, I dunno if you’re a guy), as a mammal, is that the baby is not an ‘unwanted invader.’ If humans were reptiles, or fish, then I would see yout point, because then your offspring living inside of you would be an invader. But humans do not lay eggs or do they disperse gametes into water to be fertilised, they gestate.
What a bodily function is designed for has no effect on our morals or laws. We are designed with a function where our saliva, upon biting an animal (humans included), has a very high chance of forcing infection potentially leading to death. The fact that our bites are designed to kill humans in no way justifies us doing so. So unless you want to outlaw glasses because they use our ears and noses in a way contrary to how they were designed, I think it is safe to throw this particular line of argument out the window, no?

I agree with your statement that people cannot be forced to supply body parts for donation, but I don’t see how this applies to the condition of a mother pregnant with her child.
The child is actively using your blood and kidneys and quite a few other organs during pregnancy; while it may be only 'burrowing' your main organs, it is using a 'donation' of blood all the time.

You noted that some people can be forced to supply the remedy for the person’s condition if that condition is the result of their actions. First of all I think I would like to bring to the table that sexual intercourse can bring into creation a child and not only that, its always a child ... /snip/ ... I would also like to bring to attention, again, to the point that you made that sometimes we can force people, their time and attention to bring us out of danger if they have caused to place us in harm’s way. The women is responsible for her child’s condition of needing the use of her womb.
If it was not rape, I would agree with out, but since this is for cases of rape, the woman is not at fault.

I hope this answers any questions you had about my views on the matter? I would ask a few too you, but I cannot think of any for this particular line of thought, though I will be happy to answer any responses to my response.
 
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Bodily integrity doesn’t overrule the right to life unless in done self-defence.

Where is that law written down? It's easy to say things like that, when it isn't your bodily integrity.

Which presumes that the child is attacking its mother by gestating and causing the pregnancy. This is nonsense. Your own child in gestation is completely the natural result of sexual intercourse of the parents.

It may be natural, but it isn't always wanted, and pregnant women aren't always able to care for a child. Who is in a better position to know if she can handle it, her, or some random stranger who knows nothing about her or her situation?

Abortion being right or wrong is a personal decision, and if you're not pregnant, then it's not your decision.
 
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A point or two, if you don't mind...

There is also the bizarre turnaround where in the third trimester the women is unable to claim ‘self-defence against attack on bodily integrity’ even though nothing in the situation has changed.

But something has changed: the fetus has become viable. What this means is that it is able to survive on its own, outside the womb. This is a major difference, biologically...it's also significant, legally: that's the point where the Supreme Court has ruled that states may legislate against abortion.

So a lot changes at that point.

Surely ‘trespassing’ is only imposed upon people who have the physical ability to understand privacy and are not forced to be upon private land without the ability to move and survive outside of it, but those who choose to break the law and put themselves on the land, though their being there is not crucial to their survival.

Uh....you do realize that "trespassing" is used as an analogy here. The actual legal definition of trespassing doesn't actually apply.

What does apply is simply this: laws prohibiting abortion outright are unconstitutional, so the government cannot prohibit women from getting one, not until fetal viability.

Pregnancy is designed to....

You'll have to prove pregnancy was designed in a specific way for a specific purpose to make this argument. Perhaps by showing us the owner's manual?

Otherwise, well, you're just making assumptions here. And your assumptions may not reach the same conclusion as a woman who is actually pregnant, and facing this decision herself.

I agree with your statement that people cannot be forced to supply body parts for donation, but I don’t see how this applies to the condition of a mother pregnant with her child.

Sure it does. If she doesn't want to be pregnant, then forcing her to remain pregnant means her body parts are being used to sustain an embryo without her consent.

-- A2SG, you're free to disagree, of course, and you can make your own decisions when you're pregnant....
 
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People don't understand that it isn't only about the baby. It's the intent of the person having the abortion. Children are a gift and a heritage from the Lord. To throw a gift from God in the trash is offensive to say the least.

If someone gives you a christmas present that you don't like, don't want, and have no use for, are you required to spend every cent you have on it's upkeep for eighteen to twenty years, and even beyond?

See, when I give someone a gift, I don't punish them if they choose to return it.

-- A2SG, that's why I always include a gift receipt.....
 
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People don't understand that it isn't only about the baby. It's the intent of the person having the abortion. Children are a gift and a heritage from the Lord. To throw a gift from God in the trash is offensive to say the least.

When you can prove that they are a gift from god... even prove that God exists, you may have a point, but until that day, any argument from god is moot in a legal standpoint.
 
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People don't understand that it isn't only about the baby. It's the intent of the person having the abortion. Children are a gift and a heritage from the Lord. To throw a gift from God in the trash is offensive to say the least.

Paper napkins are also a gift from the Lord. Yet we throw those in the trash all the time.
 
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