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Abortion: What think Ye?

What is your position on abortion?

  • It should be illegal

  • It should be illegal in most but not all circumstances

  • It should always be legal

  • It should be legal under most circumstances


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GreyWolf

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Yes, I know I've touched on this topic before, but not in a while and not in this forum, so I think I'll have a go at it again.
My view is that abortion is wrong. I believe that God forgives, and that one should not judge those who have abortions, because it is not our place to judge. But I do not feel that abortion should be legal. There is a page at http://clinicquotes.topcities.com which has a list of quotes from various sources on abortion, mostly from doctors and clinic workers who've peformed them. They are very eye-opening. I will include a few, and I would be interested in hearing other people's opinions on them. I will NOT flame anyone who disagrees with me, please give me the same courtesy although this is an emotional issue.
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"I got to where I couldn't stand to look at the little bodies anymore"
--Dr. Beverly McMillan, when asked why she stopped performing abortions.

"We all wish it were formless, but its not...and its painful. There is a lot of emotional pain."
--abortion clinic worker
Quoted in "The Ex Abortionists: They Have Confronted Reality" Washington Post April 1, 1988 p a 21
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"From May to November 1988, I worked for an abortionist. He specializes in third trimester killings. I witnessed evidence of the brutal, cold blooded murder of over 600 viable, healthy babies at seven, eight and nine months gestation. A very, very few of these babies, less than 2%, were handicapped...I thought I was pro-choice and I was glad to be working in an abortion clinic. I thought I was helping provide a noble service to women in crisis....I was instructed to falsify the age of the babies in medical records. I was required to lie to the mothers over the phone, as they scheduled their appointments, and to tell them that they were not 'too far along' Then I had to note, in the records that Dr. Tiller's needle had successfully pierced the walls of the baby's heart, injecting the poison what brought death...one day, Dr. Tiller came up the stairs from the basement, where the mothers were in labor. He was carrying a large cardboard box, and ducked into the employees only area of the office so that he wouldn't have to walk through the waiting room. He passed behind my desk as I sat working on the computer, and he turned the corner to go around a short hall. He called out for me to come and help him. the box was so big and heavy in his arms that he couldn't get the key into the lock. So I unlocked the door for him, and , pushing the door open, I saw very clearly the gleaming metal of the crematorium- a full sized crematorium, just like the one's used in funeral homes. I went back to my computer. I could hear Dr. Tiller firing up the gas oven. A few minutes later I could smell burning human flesh. Mine was the agony of a participant, however reluctant, in the act of prenatal infanticide."
--Luhra Tivis on her experience in the abortion business Quoted in Celebrate Life Sept/Oct 1994 "Where is the Real Violence?"
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From "Abortion at Work: Ideology and Practice in a Feminist Clinic" by Wendy Simonds. New Brunswick: Rutgers University Press, 1996. This was a book by a pro-choice feminist who included a chapter about how clinic workers reacted to seeing fetal remains. Here are a few quotes:

"It's just- I mean it looks like a baby. It looks like a baby. And especially if you get one that comes out, that's not piecemeal. And you know, I saw this one, and it had its fingers in its mouth...it makes me really sad that that had to happen, you know, but it doesn't change my mind. It's just hard..."

"I feel some sadness [about abortions] and I think part of the problem is that we don't talk about that...we don't talk about it as much as we think about it...somehow your pro-choice stance is compromised by saying the word "baby."...We don't allow ourselves to say or think that word...."

"At nine weeks...you start seeing fetal parts. And by the second trimester it's, you know, it's a baby, and by eighteen weeks it's definitely a baby. And by like, you know, twenty-two weeks, you go in and you watch someone do a sonogram, and you're like, "Oh my." There it is just moving, moving around. And it's really hard because I always thought of abortion in terms of just the woman, just her body."

"...when you're, you know, putting a fetus's feet in over its head in a baggie, there's just this brief moment of "This could have been me," which I fundamentally believe is okay. She should have the right to choose..."

"...it looks like a baby, That's what it looks like to me. You've never seen anything else that looks like that. The only other thing you've ever seen is a baby...You can see a face and hands, and ears and eyes and, you know...feet and toes...It bothered me real bad the first time..."

"The destruction I can't deny....I wish we lived in a world where abortion didn't have to exist."

"I think the tough part was seeing actual pieces of fetus being removed..And in the beginning, yes, I remember looking, standing behind this woman's shoulder [as she performed an abortion] and thinking, "I can't do this...There's something emotionally upsetting about this..Features are discernible; you can count five fingers on a hand and five toes on a foot. You know, all the organ systems are formed. You know, you can see ears as structures, and the nose and eyes as structures...I have gotten to the point now that because I've been doing this work five months, four months, I look at it a little differently. I don't see the same things that I did. And, honestly, when I sit down to do one of these now, I am watching to be sure that I'm getting everything that I need to get. It's 'Do I have two lower extremities? Do I have two upper extremities? Is t here a spine? ...and the skull?...It does become a bit routine after a while. I don't fear it."

"I hate it when people put it together to look like a baby. I hate that...I don't want to look like it when its like that because it's like a broken doll, and that grosses me out."

From the author: "Many health workers told me they 'never look at the face' when processing tissue."
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"After an abortion, the doctor must inspect these remains to make sure that all the fetal parts and placenta have been removed. Any tissue left inside the uterus can start an infection. Dr. Bours squeezed the contents of the sock into a shallow dish and poked around with his finger. "You can see a teeny tiny hand' he said.

--abortion clinic worker quoted in "Is the Fetus Human?" and in Dudley Clendinen, "The Abortion Conflict: What it Does to One Doctor" New York Times Magazine Aug 11 1985 p 26
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"Abortions are very draining, exhausting, heart-rending. There are a lot of tears. Some patients turn on you...I do them because I take the attitude that women who are going to terminate babies deserve the same kind of treatment as women who carry babies...I've done a couple thousand, and its been a significant financial boon...the only way I can do an abortion is to consider only the woman as my patient and block out the baby."
--abortionist quoted in M.D. Doctors Talk About Themselves by John Pekkanan
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From "Lovejoy: A Year in the Life of an Abortion Clinic" one worker says

"I have never denied that human life begins at conception. If I have a complaint about our society, its that we don't deal with death and dying. Do we believe human beings have a right to make decisions about death and dying? Yes we do, and those decisions are made every day in every hospital."
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From "Articles of Faith: A Frontline History of The Abortion Wars" by Cynthia Gorney (New York: Simon& Schuster, 1998.)

"Never. I would never look down. Some of the nurses watched as he removed the tissue, but I never looked. If I looked, I would never be able to work there [the clinic]again." --Carlean Turner, Kansas City, on D&E abortions
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In the book "Abortion: Debating the Issue" (New York:Enslow Publishing, Inc., 1995) Nancy Day quotes abortionist Dr. Ed Jones, who had worked at a Planned Parenthood Clinic for 4 years at the time of the interview, saying the following:

"This can burn you out very, very quickly...not so much by the physical labor as the emotional part of what's going on. When you do an ultraound, particularly if you have children, and you see a fetus there, kicking, moving, living, doing things that your own child does, bringing it's thumb to its mouth, and things like that- it's difficult. Then, after the procedure, sometimes we have to actually look at the specimen, and you see arms and legs and things like that torn off...It does take an emotional toll."
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Is abortion murder? All killing isn't murder...."

--Don Sloan, MD, abortion provider, author of "Abortion: A Doctor's Perspective, A Woman's Dilemma." Quoted in "Abortion: Opposing Viewpoints" edited by Tamara L. Roleff.
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“I dismember the foetus - pull it apart limb from limb - and remove it piece by piece and two hours later I've forgotten them.”

– Prof. Phillip Bennett, Abortion provider.Sunday Independent, 11/8/1996
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“Berkeley Medical Journal” Spring 1995 Edition “The Abortionist” by LeoWang

"Abortion is killing the fetus....Human life, in and of itself, is not sacred. Human life, per se, is not inviolate."
--abortionist Dr. Smith
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"No one, neither the patient receiving an abortion, nor the person doing the abortion, is ever, at anytime, unaware that they are ending a life..."
--Abortion provider William F Harrison, MD, FACOG, from the essay "Why I Provide Abortions" 1996.
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"I wanted to be the world's best abortionist, for the good of my patients. If I was going to do this, I was going to do it right. So, after I met each patient, reviewed the medical information gathered by my nurse, examined the patient and performed the abortion, I would then carefully sift through the remains to be sure all the parts were accounted for. I had to find four extremities (two arms and two legs) a spine, a skull, and the placenta, or my patient would suffer later from an incomplete abortion...My attention was so focused on my perceived patient that I managed to deny that there were, in fact, two patients involved- the expectant mother and a very small child...I had to wonder, how can having a child be so wrong for some people that they will pay me to end its life?"
--former abortionist Dr. McMillan "How One Doctor Changed Her Mind About Abortion" Focus on the Family, Colorado Springs
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"I walked in the laboratory every day. I saw dead babies every day for three years. If I could see fifty, I was so happy. Because, you know what? That meant I was really gonna have a good bonus in my paycheck."
---Clinic worker Hellen Pendley. Quoted by Mary Meeham in "The Ex-Abortionists: Why They Quit" in The Human Life Review
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From Norma McCorvey's book Won By Love:
At least 80 percent of the women would try to look down at the end of the table, wondering if they cold see anything which is why our doctor always went in with the scalpel first. Once the baby was already cut up, there was nothing but blood and torn up tissue for the woman to see. When a later abortion was performed, workers had to piece the baby back together, and every major part--head, torso, two legs, and two arms --had to be accounted for."
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At 18 years old and not a Christian. A very confused and screwed up girl I had an abortion.

At 27 years I discovered Jesus and became saved.



I can say I understand and see both sides of this issue with utter clarity. I know what it is to be in shock over an unplanned unwanted pregnancy, desperate, terrified and determined to rid my body of this thing ruining my life.

I know what it is to realise that that 'thing' had been a life, a God given life and to realise that all life is precious and to know I could never ever abort a child again.

So while the Christian side of me could never condone abortion, the other part of me that has walked that traumatic journey knows I cant make a judgement call against women who do.

Disclaimer - I can never and will never ever, be able to see any justifcation, reason or be able to identify in any way whatsoever with partial birth abortions. It is illegal in my country and can not fathom how or why the USA still have this as a legal option.
 
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It should be legal in under strict (not necessarily narrow) circumstances. For example, massive birth defects like anencephaly should warrant abortion as an option. However as a form of post-zygotic birth control, it should not be an option. There are other things to consider when birth defects and maternal health are not involved; if you're essentially forcing a woman to give birth against her will, is it wise to also force her or a father that may not care (assuming his identity is known) to care for the child as well? Adoption isn't exactly the cure all that many anti-abortion advocates make it out to be, the question that inevitably must be asked is; is it worth it? Many would be inclined to give a knee jerk yes. Personally I feel that in that situation doctors, psychologists and the courts need to be involved to deal with it on a case-by-case basis. It’s not something that can be legislated for in very black and white terms despite what many on both sides of the debate would have us believe.
 
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I'm totally for abortions. If the woman chooses. There need to be restrictions in place where its not abused perhaps.

But why does abortion get all the press? What about IVF? Each time that is performed dozens of fertilized embryos are destroyed. I don't ever see anyone protesting that.
 
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What makes abortion an ugly issue is that it is a fight between two things we hold dearly: life and liberty. The life of a biological human being vs the liberty of a woman with an unwanted pregnancy.

While a fetus in the first trimester is a human being, it is not a thinking person. It is similar to a brain-dead adult. In the case of a brain dead adult, we defer to the family to decide when to "pull the plug". It is at this point that I defer to a pregnant woman's liberty and decision. I value her liberty over the fetus' life.

Past the first trimester, a fetus at some point grows the brain structures necessary to be a thinking person. At this point, I defer the babies life over the woman's liberty, except in the case that the fetus might cause long term physical damage to it's mother. She has a greater right to self defense.

Roe v Wade basically says the same thing as above. However, subsequent court decisions took away essentially all rights from the state to protect the life of the fetus after the 1st trimester.

I think the best solution to the abortion problem is to end unwanted pregnancies. The feds should make a crash effort to develop guaranteed safe, effective birth control methods (abstinence doesn't work) and make it free of charge. I would even make it mandatory to females under 21. Unfortunately, "conservatives" in this country would find this unacceptable.
 
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Abortion is murder 100% of the time. I do not care the circumstances. The child never did anything to warrant such atrocity. People who have them should be tried as a murderer in a court of law and sentenced accordingly. There should be no ability to have one but if you so decide, you do it on your own at risk of your own life and your freedom.

Now, I know that there is forgiveness in Jesus for those who have had them and I pray that all who have gone this route will seek it but I do not choose to be supportive of this action but condemn it fully.

When I see any Christian who is pro-murder, I am appalled and think of the scripture where Jesus says that many will come professing to be His but in fact are not.
 
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I don't like the options. I think that it should be "legal when there are health considerations" and that those considerations are between a woman and her doctor - no government involved!!!

This way, the law neither condones (important to me that it does not) nor controls (equally important) abortion.

Too many proponents of "choice" become abortion advocates. Abortion is too easy, and doctors are not incented to discourage it for trivial reasons.

If we allow law to say when an abortion is permissable (age of mother, health of mother etc) then does a woman have to stand before a judge to have her needs met? This is the way it was before 1972. A judge had to be petitioned for a woman to legally have an abortion for any reason. (and IMO there are valid reasons - although also IMO not many)
 
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It's such a sticky topic that I cannot say "make it illegal in all circumstances and just let women die". I do not see the need to keep it legal for women who get pregnant and just don't feel like being pregnant. Nine months may seem like a long time, but compared to your lifetime and the lifetime of the child it is miniscule in length and it isn't that much to endure. Is pregnancy a pain? Sure, it can be, especially when it's unplanned; however, giving an unborn child the same opportunity at life you were given is a precious gift. Abortion is just a seemingly simple and convenient solution to a temporary problem.

I know there are many situations in which a woman (and the man, lest we should forget he is involved in the equation as well) is simply not prepared for the lifelong task of havinga child. She may not have the financial means and she may not be prepared for the emotional and physical strain of being a mother. Adoption is a means to avoid having to raise a child you are not ready to take care of, but abortion should not be an option just because the woman doesn't feel like being pregnant. When it comes to abortion for convenience sake, there really are no good reasons.

In situations of Ectopic Pregnancy in which the fertilized egg will not even reach maturity, I believe a removal is acceptable. There is no way to rescue the unborn baby from an Ectopic Pregnancy and, if left untreated, it can kill the woman as once the fallopian tube expands it will rupture causing severe internal bleeding. While it is still considered an abortion, I don't see it as the type of abortion where a woman has sex with a man, gets pregnant, and if she didn't terminate the unborn the child would continue to grow and flourish until the birth. In cases of Ectopic Pregnancy, the unborn child will not grow to a full size.

There are many situations in which a woman will claim she must have an abortion because she can't afford a pregnancy. If that's the case, there are many agencies that will assist the woman with prenatal care and tend to her needs. If the woman opts for a private adoption, many grateful couples are willing to cover the expenses for the woman carrying the child they wish to adopt. In most cases though, abortion is a quick "out" and it gives the woman no peace. They may seem relieved at first, but at some point she will grieve immensely over her loss.
 
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Onemonthman said:
Abortion is murder 100% of the time. People who have them should be tried as a murderer in a court of law and sentenced accordingly. There should be no ability to have one but if you so decide, you do it on your own at risk of your own life and your freedom.

I am a non christian who believe abortion is murder. If your views were to be taken into consideration by the law two things would happen...the women would go to doctors illegally and get butchered or women would attempt to use objects such as hangers to remove the fetus. Use you imagination as to what could possibly hapen.
 
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(abstinence doesn't work)

Really? Then how do you explain the fact that something like 89% of women who have abortions are unmarried? Only 58% were using protection at the time the were impregnated. Perhaps abstinence does work. Perhaps the solution isn't better birth control, rather self control.
 
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I am diffently not in favor of abortion being used basicly as a form of birth control,
I do however support to fact that the government has absolutly no right to tell a woman what she can or cannot do with her body. I do see cases where I think abortion is OK, but not in alot, but the government should stay out of it, It is between the woman and God, not anyone elses business.
 
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If your views were to be taken into consideration by the law two things would happen...the women would go to doctors illegally and get butchered or women would attempt to use objects such as hangers to remove the fetus. .

So be it. You don't see people like jeffrey dahmer getting pretty clinics to murder their victims in do you? No, they have to use crude weapons and take the chance that they may die in the process. People hire hit men to kill their spouses that turn around and kill the person hiring them to eliminate the witness. Same thing as hiring an illegal doctor that may butcher you in the process. Murder needs to be taken back to the dank alleys and rusty weapons. If someone wants to butcher a baby, then I say let them take their chances. I have no sympathy for a woman who dies on the table of an abortion clinic and any man that supports her in the process of killing his child should face the same as any accomplice to murder.
 
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I am very against it. I have abortion in my past as well. I was a teenager at the time. I did not realize how greatly it would affect me until years later when I had my 2 children. I look at them, and how they just love me unconditionally and are so dependant on me. I look at those innocent eyes. Then I think of the abortions (I had 2) I had. At the time, I was not affected, not even a twinge of guilt. I thought of it as just a procedure. It was early into the pregnancies, so I didn't think of the babies as children, just blobs of tissue. Even when I had ultrasounds with my son and daughter, it didn't bother me too much. What brought it all back for me was raising my children on a daily basis. When I find myself having these feelings of overwhelming love and responsibility for these 2 precious little ones, I think of the 2 that were depending on me to take care of them, who should be tugging at my pants and looking at me with those big innocent eyes. I let them down, in the worst possible way, their own mother. It hurts worse than I could have ever imagined, b/c there's nothing I can do to bring them back, though I would now in a heartbeat. Ive been forgiven, but the forgetting on my part isn't gonna happen. I am definitely pro life but don't agree with most of the ways used. Women (especially teenagers) aren't affected by being called murderers or seeing graphic photos. The fear of being pregnant far outweighs that, especially if you don't see the baby as a child. The pregnant mom needs love, and complete support. This is a touchy subject for me, of course because of my past, but also because I believe this is an area of my life God is gonna use in a big way someday. God bless all of you!
 
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GMRELIC said:
I do however support to fact that the government has absolutly no right to tell a woman what she can or cannot do with her body.
So should we get rid of drug laws? It is her body she is ingesting heroin into after all.

Since it is her body and she should be able to kill the child she does not want touching her, should she be able to kill anyone who does? Afterall, it is her body.


What about walking around nude? Again.

no, the government has a right and a duty to protect people. The unborn child is one who most needs their protection.
 
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dkara said:
It isn't our place to judge. Christians believe folks will be judged.

You are correct It is not our place to judge.

Abortion is here to stay--either legal and safe or illegal and butchery.

Abortion is here only because we allow it. If it weren't legal then the doctors and people who preform them could be arrested and sent to jail and the mothers if you want to call them that, could be charged with murder and sent to jail. Thats why we have laws ..to keep people from doing things they shouldn't. As far as it being safe now you are wrong it is not safe and never has been ....although it may be done in sterile places and there is no physical damage to the woman there is still the emotional problems and guilt to deal with.

Once we force folks to have children---it will be the children who pay.

We aren't trying to force someone to give birth. Most abortions happen because people do stupid things and get themselves pregnant. If someone is old enough to have sex then they should be mature enough to have a child if they are not mature enough then they shouldnt be having sex. People who get themselves pregnant and then decide that its gonna mess up their plans for their life are selfish.

Now I know you are gonna throw the almighty question at me ...what about incest and rape .....so I'll give you my answer....why punish an unborn child for someone else's sin. There is no reasoning in that. And as far as making the children pay.....you can't say the child is better off dead before it is giving a chance to live. There are many many many people out there waiting to adopt a child why not put it up for adoption if you think you cant handle it or its going to ruin your life ....taking 40 weeks out of your life to be responsible about your own mistake is far better then spending a life time knowing that you murdered you own flesh and blood.
 
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