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tall73

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In the recent discussion on the issue of Ellen White in GT i think that we over reacted at first. When people ask about our beliefs we need not be defensive. Some might indeed ask from wrong motives. But it is still an opportunity to share what we believe. And such questions are valid questions.

The more calm we are the more people can see the real arguments, not the inter-personal sparks. I know this is not easy.

The truth is we are often found to be critical of other's beliefs, and perhaps rightly so in many cases. In discussing bibliical issues there will be differences.

But we must always remain calm, and keep it on a factual level. If we do otherwise, or constantly accuse people it looks like we have something to hide.

So please, remain calm when we are questioned. Everyone who looks will then have an opportunity to learn.

When studying with others I often get questions. And how you handle them, and how you act while you do it, makes a huge difference.

I had at least one pm from that thread asking about our beliefs on the Sabbath, etc. So whatever people might think about why topics are started, they are not wrong to discuss.

One last note, and i hate to even say it. it is not my intention to make enemies among my own fellow Adventists. But if our exegesis is better, we don't need to SAY it is better. It will be evident by showing the facts. The more we make large claims the more we look like we are trying to convince people on something other than the facts.
 

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friend tall73,

thanks for this thread. as one who knows nothing at all of the doctrine of your church, i have been reading what has been posted in a bunch of threads in an attempt to underestand where you are coming from. occasionally, i have gained some insight, but sometimes the answers have seemed evasive. i will continue to read, and try to learn more.

thanks,

lh
 
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