A question for you male-types

Luther073082 said:

Wow someone's in man-hating mood.

There is the same chance for women doing the same thing.

Risks have to be taken.

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rdonovan1 said:

You should try getting out into the real world instead of sitting around judging people that you don't know.

I have learned more from real life than I have from any book so you have no call to sit around and judge me. You claim to know everything but you don't because you have not been there and you have not done half of what you think that you know.

I know because I have been there and done that which is more than I can say about you. I have spent more time in the real world as an over the road truck driver and I have hung around people that could easily con you out of anything that they wanted.

One good case of that is a female friend of mine who lived next door to me and who was basically a con artist. She was not only smarter than you, but she also had a lot more experience than you out in the real world and most of what she talked about I already knew because I have been there myself.

Books are all fine and good and there is a lot that you can learn from them, but if you just sit around the house and read books all of the time without going out and experiencing life itself then you are never going to know as to what is really real and what is not.

Most people tend to treat psychologists like they are some sort of God, but they are not Gods at all. All they are is flesh and blood human beings who can and do make mistakes like the rest of us and that is why you cannot put all of your faith and trust into what they have to say.

Most of what they say are nothing but mere generalizations and stereotyping like all women are crazy because they have a period. Who on earth is dumb enough to believe in any of that crap. Everyone that has any ounce of common sense knows that women cannot control their periods and that having a period does not make a woman crazy by any means.

You sound like you need to get your head out of the television set and do something usefull like going to church and other places instead of sitting around on your computer judging everyone because you are too afraid to go and find out the real truth.

I personally don't care about any of your problems because just like everyone else here I have my own problems that I am dealing with and that is why I am currently working on trying to start my own e-commerce businesses because I know that it can be done.

All of the businesses that you currently see like Walmart, Petsmart, Swift Transportation and all of the others started out as nothing but dreams, but through hard work and sheer determination they all became successfull businesses because the owners of each and every company took the time to learn that in which they did not know and that in which they could not learn, they hired employees to help them with their businesses.

Everyone that is even remotely smart knows that people can and do lie and that people can and will attempt to deceive you just like satan will because they lack good morals and ethics and that is a proven fact by actual incidents in which children are now bringing things like guns to school and in getting into fights.

When I was in school there was no such thing as kids bringing guns to school. Yes, we still had our share of stereotypes going around the school which basically separated everyone from one another because in one corner you had the jocks, while in another corner you had the headbangers, and then of course there existed the preppie's and the nerds and that is not to mention all of the other sub-social groups that existed that I am probably not even aware of even existing.

The point is that you cannot go around and stereotype other people nor can you sit around that think that you know everything or that you are perfect because you are not and the Bible even says that.

Perhaps you will recall as to what Jesus thought of hypocrites and as to how even Jesus was tempted by satan. And perhaps you might even recall as to what happened to JOB in the Bible. The point is that if you run around judging people and thinking that you know everything when you really don't then you risk being labeled as a hypocrite by God and that is one of the things that God tends to hate most and that is a proven fact because the Bible tells us so.

I unlike other people do not run around and judge people and I never will because I know that is wrong. The only place for stereotypes is maybe in a comedy routine and even there you have to be careful because if you don't know your audience then you risk offending them because many people are sick and tired of all the labels and the stereotypes.

If you really want to get to know someone and to understand them, then all that you have to do is to ask and to be willing to accept what they have to say without riduculing or humiliting them as that is what is called having good social skills, and it is important that when someone says something that you listen to what they have to say because you can never be sure as to what you might be able to pick up from them because each person is unique and has their own experiences and education from which to draw from. Just because someone has a different background from you does not give you the right to attack them at all and that is why it is so important to practice good listening skills while at the same time reserving judgement because just like the Bible says if you judge someone, then you will be judged as well by God. Simple common sense goes a long way here.

One of the other things that I have learned is that more often than not you have to tend to take things with a grain of salt. While there is much that you can learn from other people, you also have to learn as to how to discern and differentiate the fact from the fiction and to base your decisions about what is right and what is wrong based upon the facts.

If there is something that you don't agree with that someone says then state it as an opinion unless you have hard clear evidence based upon fact that what they are saying false.

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maycontainnuts said:

I am on the phone with him and he says to tell you he is sorry and he did not mean for it to be offensive.

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