There was a minister who wanted to be a more effective communicator in his church. He felt the best way to be a more effective communicator was to live an example to others. So after the service one day, he greated all the congregation at the door while they were leaving,but noticed a little 12 year old boy looking at all the pictures on the wall in the foyer. Now the minister thought to himself set an example and communicate with a member of the younger generation. so the minister said to the little boy,` You know,those are all the courageous men and women who died in the service.` And the little boy looked up at the minister and said,`was that the 9.oo or the 11.o`clock service?`