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A Jealous God

HisW0rd

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Exodus 34: 14 (for you shall worship no other god, for the LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God)
I know a lot of people would say different about this scripture. The reason I choose this scripture because 1)god can mean idol and idol can mean a human being. 2) A lot of women/men make their boyfriends/girlfriends, husbands/wives, or any other type of companion their god.

Now I can imagine the scriptures I will get from you as far as marriage and I understand.
Ephesians 5:22-25
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.


From my understanding a husband is suppose to submit himself unto the Lord. So when his wife submit herself unto him she is actually serving the Lord through her husband. I know that both of their personal relationship with Jesus Christ will grow also. If the husband decides not to obey what the word of God says and the wife continues to disobey God with her husband, I feel that she is putting that man before God or vice versa.(1 Corinthians 7:12-16) Correct me if I am wrong.

1 Corinthians 7:27,32-40
27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife.

32 But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the Lord. 33 But he who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife. 34 There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. 35 And this I say for your own profit, not that I may put a leash on you, but for what is proper, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction.

I try to do the dating scene and etc. Every time I do the Lord closes the doors for me. I do not desire to be married right now and as far as sex I really don’t desire to do that. The sex part can be very tricky but if I really avoid lustful people its actually easy.


When I do invite men into my life, they cut into my personal time with the Lord Jesus Christ. Not intentionally but it just seem to happens every time. Its not that my relationship with God changes(most of the time) but they are distractions. As single men and woman of God, how do you really know that your free time is ONLy meant for God and not someone else?


I do desire a mighty man of God but every time I think about that, the scripture that says seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you(Matthew 6:33)comes to heart.
 

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Exodus 34: 14 (for you shall worship no other god, for the LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God)


I know a lot of people would say different about this scripture. The reason I choose this scripture because 1)god can mean idol and idol can mean a human being. 2) A lot of women/men make their boyfriends/girlfriends, husbands/wives, or any other type of companion their god.

Now I can imagine the scriptures I will get from you as far as marriage and I understand.

Ephesians 5:22-25
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.


From my understanding a husband is suppose to submit himself unto the Lord. So when his wife submit herself unto him she is actually serving the Lord through her husband. I know that both of their personal relationship with Jesus Christ will grow also. If the husband decides not to obey what the word of God says and the wife continues to disobey God with her husband, I feel that she is putting that man before God or vice versa.(1 Corinthians 7:12-16) Correct me if I am wrong.


1 Corinthians 7:27,32-40
27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife.
32 But I want you to be without care. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the Lord. 33 But he who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife. 34 There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. 35 And this I say for your own profit, not that I may put a leash on you, but for what is proper, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction.


I try to do the dating scene and etc. Every time I do the Lord closes the doors for me. I do not desire to be married right now and as far as sex I really don’t desire to do that. The sex part can be very tricky but if I really avoid lustful people its actually easy.


When I do invite men into my life, they cut into my personal time with the Lord Jesus Christ. Not intentionally but it just seem to happens every time. Its not that my relationship with God changes(most of the time) but they are distractions. As single men and woman of God, how do you really know that your free time is ONLy meant for God and not someone else?


I do desire a mighty man of God but every time I think about that, the scripture that says seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you(Matthew 6:33)comes to heart.

As for the first part, this is exactly the reason why I divorced my husband of 10 years but technically 15, for those 5 years we were just separated. I felt like I was consenting to his adultery so I decided to file for divorce.

The second part, I have been also into dating recently but like you it seemed God closes the doors on me. It does seem take away you from your personal time with GOd but I do believe I am trying my very best to keep God first.

Only God knows what is best for us, huh?

God bless!!! I like your post.
 
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HisW0rd

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As for the first part, this is exactly the reason why I divorced my husband of 10 years but technically 15, for those 5 years we were just separated. I felt like I was consenting to his adultery so I decided to file for divorce.

The second part, I have been also into dating recently but like you it seemed God closes the doors on me. It does seem take away you from your personal time with GOd but I do believe I am trying my very best to keep God first.

Only God knows what is best for us, huh?

God bless!!! I like your post.

It took me awhile to realize what I needed to do in order to please God. My problem with my relationships is boundaries, how much am I suppose to sacrifice for this man I love? and every time the Lord shut the doors and would say I want more of you. It was frustrating but more and more the Lord makes it worth the time. I know He will bless me with my husband but I must serve Him first. Once I mature in the Lord, I would have no problem serving my husband for the Lords sake.

I am sorry for what happened with your husband. Sometimes the Lord wants to restore us from all the hurts in our past too. For some reason when we get hurt, we forget who we really are in Christ and what we can do through Him. God will bless you with whoever you desire but He asks me, When I bless you, will you forget Me or will you magnify Me in every area of your life? I see women everyday lose sight in who they are in Christ because of a man. They want a husband so bad. Trust me I know how it feels but the Lord wants to do far more than giving you a awesome man of God. Give Him your heart and see how beautifully He will restore you in Him. Its an awesome experience!

You are blessed and loved by Him. What more could you want? He knows your desires and I pray that the Lord will give you wisdom when it comes to men. The best thing I know to do is try to be a blessing to any man who cross my path. I am not saying go out and look for them. I am saying wait on God and let Him use you to be a blessing to these men who are hurting too.

Most of the time I am trying to be their friends and show them Gods love. Talk about HARD but I try to plant positive seeds and go when the Lord tells me to. Ministering to men about the word of God is all I can do for right now. Even when I meet my husband I will have to minister to him, I might as well start practicing.


If you feel that the Lord is closing these doors, you should ask Him why. I feel in my heart that He wants to take you to different level in His spirit. He wants to outpour His Spirit and blessings upon you even more richly. He wants more of you and He wants to give you more. You have a ministry too and its never too late to do the Lords work.

God Bless

1 Corinthians 2:6-16
 
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HisW0rd

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I'm just wondering where dating is in the Bible. I don't think it's there, so I don't do it.

Ann
Friendship is important though but mose of the scriptures I find about friendship is not too good. I think there is one though
 
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