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Blessed75

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I wasn't sure where to put this. I posted it in the Newstand Cafe b/c that's where I spend most of my time. I read this and it really touched my heart. An old friend whom I've not talked to since Grade school sent it to me - I'm off to call her now. May God Bless You -

(Mods, please feel free to move this if you feel the need:) )

A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next
door. It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls,
career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the
country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had
little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with
his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The
funeral is Wednesday."

Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat
quietly remembering his childhood days.

"Jack, did you hear me?"

"Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought
of him.
I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.

"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were
doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of
the fence' as he put it," Mom told him.

"I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said.

"You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make
sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said.

"He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this
business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me
things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack
said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his
hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no
children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to
see the old house next door one more time.
Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like
crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time.

The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every
picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly.

"What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked.

"The box is gone," he said.

"What box? " Mom asked.

"There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I
must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me
was 'the thing I value most,'" Jack said.


It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack
remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

"Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I
better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from
work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a
package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within
the next three days," the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old
and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was
difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention.

"Mr. Harold Belser" it read.

Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There
inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the
note inside.

"Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack
Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the
letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully
unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running
his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover.

Inside he found these words engraved:


"Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser."
"The thing he valued most...was...my time."

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and
cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant
asked.

"I need some time to spend with my son," he said.


"Oh, by the way, Janet...thanks for your time!"

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the
moments that take our breath away,"

And now for the mushy stuff.....
Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.


1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for
you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't
like you.

4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

5. You mean the world to someone.

6. If not for you, someone may not be living.

7. You are special and unique.

8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you
probably won't get it; However, if you do what's best, and patiently wait,
sooner or later, you will get it or something better.

9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still
come from it.

10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look:
you most likely turned your back on the world.

11. Someone that you don't even know exists, loves you.

12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude
remarks.

13. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much
better when they know and you'll both be happy.

14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that
they are great.



To everyone I sent this to "Thanks for your time!"
 

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PatientFaith said:
Would someone care to explain to me the Biblical truth and accuracy of the above listed 14 statements?
Just out of curiosity are you trying to start trouble? :scratch: Surely you aren't. Maybe I'm reading you wrong. Care to explain?

Edited to say, sometimes it's good to take what we need and leave the rest and sometimes, it's best not to say anything at all..........;)
 
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dontsaystupidsaysilly

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that made me cry! thank you so much for sharing!

ugh.
Would someone care to explain to me the Biblical truth and accuracy of the above listed 14 statements?
sure! :rolleyes:
some people. i'm telling you.

"1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for
you."
well, all christians SHOULD love others so much they'd die for them!

"2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way."
see #1.

"3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't
like you.

4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep."
you must be cynical as all hell to not see truth in this!

"You are special and unique."
Jesus wouldn't die for something that wasn't special. and authenticity is valued. we were all made different, not one of us is identical to another.

"8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you
probably won't get it; However, if you do what's best, and patiently wait,
sooner or later, you will get it or something better."
enter in joseph. enter in job. enter in lots of biblical heros that waited on the Lord and got what they desired.

"9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still
come from it."
King David's affair that resulted in the birth of Solomon.

"10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look:
you most likely turned your back on the world."
Isrealites. they complained about how God wasn't getting them to where they wanted to be, but in reality it was their sin that prevented them from being where they needed to be. God didn't turn His back on His people, His people turned their backs on Him.

"11. Someone that you don't even know exists, loves you."
God to the athiests and unbelievers. your ancesters loved you enough to get you where you are today. God's warnings often involved a threat to the generations to come. some loved them so much that they stopped their sin to prevent it.

"12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude
remarks."
phil. 4:8. of course, analyze truth in what you hear before riding it off, either as a compliment or as a "rude remark".

"13. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much
better when they know and you'll both be happy."
both scripture and life in general backs up the idea that life is unpredictable and that our days are numbered.
"Peter, do you love me?"

"14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that
they are great."
see #13.
 
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Blessed75

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dontsaystupidsaysilly said:
that made me cry! thank you so much for sharing!

ugh.

sure! :rolleyes:
some people. i'm telling you.

"1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for
you."
well, all christians SHOULD love others so much they'd die for them!

"2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way."
see #1.

"3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't
like you.

4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep."
you must be cynical as all hell to not see truth in this!

"You are special and unique."
Jesus wouldn't die for something that wasn't special. and authenticity is valued. we were all made different, not one of us is identical to another.

"8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you
probably won't get it; However, if you do what's best, and patiently wait,
sooner or later, you will get it or something better."
enter in joseph. enter in job. enter in lots of biblical heros that waited on the Lord and got what they desired.

"9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still
come from it."
King David's affair that resulted in the birth of Solomon.

"10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look:
you most likely turned your back on the world."
Isrealites. they complained about how God wasn't getting them to where they wanted to be, but in reality it was their sin that prevented them from being where they needed to be. God didn't turn His back on His people, His people turned their backs on Him.

"11. Someone that you don't even know exists, loves you."
God to the athiests and unbelievers. your ancesters loved you enough to get you where you are today. God's warnings often involved a threat to the generations to come. some loved them so much that they stopped their sin to prevent it.

"12. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude
remarks."
phil. 4:8. of course, analyze truth in what you hear before riding it off, either as a compliment or as a "rude remark".

"13. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much
better when they know and you'll both be happy."
both scripture and life in general backs up the idea that life is unpredictable and that our days are numbered.
"Peter, do you love me?"

"14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that
they are great."
see #13.
^_^ Thank you so much - you are such an inspiration - THANK YOU! :hug:
 
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