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A comparison to disability

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I wonder if I might make a comparison with homosexuality and disability.

As there are for homosexuality (or certain acts, whatever.. not the point), there are verses/passages in the Bible which (seem to) speak against disability. For one, only those that were healthy were allowed in the temple, I believe it was (and lots of stuff in the OT about getting certain illnesses and how those illnesses prove sinfulness, stuff like that).. and when Jesus healed the paralytic before he said "take up your bed and walk", he said, "your sins be forgiven." These imply (or say) that disability is sinful. (And don't even get me started about how many people take the "renewing of your mind" bit as ammunition against those with cognitive disabilities.) Of course, when asked who sinned to afflict the man who was blind from birth, Jesus said that no one did.. still, it does show the people thought someone must have or else they wouldn't have asked the question.

If a person with a disability went into a church and as soon as the pastor knew about it, they decided to insert a bit about disability being sinful before God and disabled people should repent and turn from their sinful ways and be healed.. Or if someone took them aside privately and suggested that God might not take away the disability, but they needed to cut out the expressions thereof. The blind lady should choose not to use a cane or a guide dog and the mildly autistic young man might just be acceptable to God if only he'd stop stimming. Basically, that they should give up their "disabled lifestyle" (if I may) and live like God wants people to live. Any such thing would lead a person with a disability not to want to go to that church again, I would think.. and maybe turn them off Christianity (or even religion as a whole) entirely.

(For you who think homosexuality is sinful, particularly those who think homosexuality is an illness.. I hope you treat it as one.. understanding that a person with an illness or condition is a person and deserves every bit of rights and respect that you do. (It's violating any of those that I think would make a bigot.) I respectfully suggest that if you think it's sinful, keep your mouth shut about that. You might could say something like, "I don't think God wants people to be like that, I don't think it's perfection and holiness embodied, but I know that God accepts everyone just as they are -- and I'm not perfect, myself!" I'm not sure, but I think that would be fairly acceptable to a person who thinks homosexuality is fine or that they're not disabled, just different.)

If there is a homosexual agenda, there is a disabled agenda.. and they're about the same thing. Acceptance, equal rights, equal respect as persons.. that kind of thing. There are disability rights advocates fighting for employment rights, accessibility.. and more than that, trying to change people's impressions of disability and disabled people. The disability rights movement is further ahead in the US than the gay rights movement is.. but at one point in the US, disability rights advocates were fighting for the right to marry and the right to keep their reproductive abilities. (The US was practicing eugenics before Germany got started with it.) And there are still people fighting against disability rights, believe it or not.. Accessibility cost too much, they are disabled, it's not their problem. Disabled people, oh those poor invalids.. they deserve our pity, not our respect. And there are more incidents of abuse against people with disabilities than just about any other group. Teasing is rampant in school and somewhat otherwise.. (just about as many things as are called gay are called retarded.. and a lot of people didn't and don't know where the term "spaz out" comes from). And people with hidden disabilities often have people tell them they aren't disabled when they disclose that. The disability rights group still has a way to go.. as does the gay rights group.. Both groups still don't have the right to live just anywhere (at least de facto).. and gay rights is still working on winning the right to gain and hold employment. Both fight the war against insidious discrimination in the community, trying more than anything to get the community to understand they are people just as those they're speaking to are.. that they deserve rights and deserve respect. Disability does not define the whole of a person and neither does sexuality. The larger community has yet to learn those lessons.

Ah.. just an aside.. the disability rights movement has no interest in adding to the numbers of people with disabilities (except by generally being vehemently against selective abortion against disabilities, particularly completely survivable/livable ones.) I suspect the gay rights movement is the same. It's not that either group wants everybody to be like them.. it's just that they want the equal rights, respect and acceptance as persons that most people seem to get.. and that they don't.

The disability rights movement and the gay rights movement have a lot of things in common as the respective groups face or have faced similar prejudices. And both groups, gay people and disabled people, can have verses thrown at them saying they're sinful, against God, etc (and this isn't the best thing to do). But both groups, as all people, deserve equal rights, respect, and acceptance as people. If you can agree that this is true for disabled people, I think you ought to be able to consider it true for homosexual people (or vice versa). If you can't agree this is true for either group, then I'd say you have both left to work on.

I do hope I have offended anyone with this post and I hope I'm forgiven for it being long and rambling. I'm aware that is section is "debates on homosexuality". I don't know what might be debated of this, but given what I've seen here, I would be very surprised if no one found anything to argue. ;)

God bless.
 

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but I know that God accepts everyone just as they are

Let me stop you there. God does not accept wicked people. (Please do not think I'm specifically refering to homosexuals. This includes liars, bigots, heterosexuals, and murderers.)

"This is what the LORD says about this people:
"They greatly love to wander;
they do not restrain their feet.
So the LORD does not accept them;
he will now remember their wickedness
and punish them for their sins."

Then the LORD said to me, "Do not pray for the well-being of this people. Although they fast, I will not listen to their cry; though they offer burnt offerings and grain offerings, I will not accept them. Instead, I will destroy them with the sword, famine and plague." But I said, "Ah, Sovereign LORD, the prophets keep telling them, 'You will not see the sword or suffer famine. Indeed, I will give you lasting peace in this place.' "" (Jeremiah 14:10-11)

"But your iniquities have separated
you from your God;
your sins have hidden his face from you,
so that he will not hear." (Isaiah 59:2)


God does not accept people the way they are. He DAMNS people the way they are. We are God's enemies from birth. But he LOVES us so much that he was WILLING to die for us; and he DID! Through his death, we are made whole and given a new life through faith and the flood of our Baptisms, to live that new life in continued sanctification.

Comparing disabled people is a poor example. Most disabled people cannot help the physical aspect of their disability.

Homosexuals CAN stop committing the sin of homosexual sex.
 
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Wow. I have a disability, and although somewhat mild, it is still quite recognizable, and I still get stares from time to time. Coincidentally, I am also gay. I am not calling out all Christians, but my experience with them and my being gay has been quite negative. And as I stated before, I sometimes experience negativity and even ignorance when it comes to my disability. This post moved me. It's wonderful to know that there are Christians that truly accept me, including my disability and my sexual orientation.

As a side note, to BreadAlone - personally, I cannot change my sexual orientation any more than I can my disability. Believe me, I have tried.
 
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As a side note, to BreadAlone - personally, I cannot change my sexual orientation any more than I can my disability. Believe me, I have tried.
He made no mention of changing your orientation. He mentioned not committing the sin. Just because you are tempted doesn't mean you are then required to give in to it.
 
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Let me stop you there.
No, I won't let you. If you do so, it is not by my leave. I think you ought to have gone at least to the end of the sentence. Unless, of course, you believe yourself perfect.
God does not accept wicked people. (Please do not think I'm specifically refering to homosexuals. This includes liars, bigots, heterosexuals, and murderers.)
Your slip makes me laugh. But I stand by what I said, though perhaps the wording wasn't the best. Even if you think homosexuality or disability is sinful, God still accepts the people. I do believe you agree that God loves each person in the world, even the vilest of sinners, so much that he sent his only Son that by him they might be redeemed. Jesus would associate with the sick, the sinful, the outcasts of society for whatever reason. If that isn't acceptance of them as people, I don't know what is.

You say God doesn't accept wicked people. Strange, that.. I thought it was that God doesn't accept wickedness, not wicked people. I suppose you would say that we should love neither the sinner nor the sin? Careful with that if you be not sinless.

God does not accept people the way they are. He DAMNS people the way they are. We are God's enemies from birth. But he LOVES us so much that he was WILLING to die for us; and he DID! Through his death, we are made whole and given a new life through faith and the flood of our Baptisms, to live that new life in continued sanctification.
Perhaps (though I'm sure we'd disagree on many things).. but my point in the section from which you took a snippet was that speaking down, dooming so much is unproductive and ungracious. It generally serves to turn people away from Christ, not towards him. If you would preach, I recommend preaching the good news, that is, the gospel.

Comparing disabled people is a poor example. Most disabled people cannot help the physical aspect of their disability.

Homosexuals CAN stop committing the sin of homosexual sex.
You think it's a poor example, you mean. It's not as much as you seem to think, though that you speak of "physical aspect" is telling. (It means you may well think that any thing or certain things you don't consider strictly physical the people can help.) At any rate, there are people out there who do seem to think disability is so terrible that disabled people are routinely prayed over without their consent, told to repent of their sins that caused their condition, and, especially for hidden disabilities, told God doesn't want them to live as they do, it's sinful, and they should do everything possible to "live normally", that is, the ways the speakers think are right, think would make them acceptable to God. Given that and the examples I spoke of about how disability is taken as sin by some interpretations of the bible.. no, I don't see how it's such a terrible example.

Would you do me a favor and try to quote at least a full sentence if you quote me again? Thanks.
 
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Wow. I have a disability, and although somewhat mild, it is still quite recognizable, and I still get stares from time to time. Coincidentally, I am also gay. I am not calling out all Christians, but my experience with them and my being gay has been quite negative. And as I stated before, I sometimes experience negativity and even ignorance when it comes to my disability. This post moved me. It's wonderful to know that there are Christians that truly accept me, including my disability and my sexual orientation.
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Thank you for saying. I'm glad to know it did some good.

I'm sorry that people can be so unkind, so hurtful. I try to be kind, spread love and help open eyes where I may.. but sometimes with this kind of stuff, anything like that, ungracious acts where people believing they're doing good instead hurt others.. sometimes my prayer has to be that of Jesus on the cross: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Sigh. I hope that, at least.. I'd rather the world be ignorant than evil.
 
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No, I won't let you. If you do so, it is not by my leave. I think you ought to have gone at least to the end of the sentence. Unless, of course, you believe yourself perfect.

That's what I wanted to address. I was the one responding, you asked for responses. It's a little presumtious of you to address how I choose to do something you asked me to do.

Your slip makes me laugh.

I guess if it was a slip it'd be funny. I meant what I said..heterosexuals who have sex outside of marriage are wrong. (I guess I could have put "unwed heterosexuals," but still..)

But I stand by what I said, though perhaps the wording wasn't the best. Even if you think homosexuality or disability is sinful, God still accepts the people. I do believe you agree that God loves each person in the world, even the vilest of sinners, so much that he sent his only Son that by him they might be redeemed. Jesus would associate with the sick, the sinful, the outcasts of society for whatever reason. If that isn't acceptance of them as people, I don't know what is.

Well, I showed you what the Bible said. What you choose to believe is of your own accord. I'll stand by what God says. If someone is living unrepentantly in sin, they are not pleasing God.

You say God doesn't accept wicked people. Strange, that.. I thought it was that God doesn't accept wickedness, not wicked people. I suppose you would say that we should love neither the sinner nor the sin? Careful with that if you be not sinless.

That's a mystery of the gospel..God hates sinners..and yet loves them all the same. Unfathomable..


Perhaps (though I'm sure we'd disagree on many things).. but my point in the section from which you took a snippet was that speaking down, dooming so much is unproductive and ungracious. It generally serves to turn people away from Christ, not towards him. If you would preach, I recommend preaching the good news, that is, the gospel.

I completely agree. People who don't know Christ usually don't respond kindly to "your a sinful pig." It takes the love of Christ in Word and deed to soften hardened hearts.

BUT, those who have supposedly recieved this love of Christ, and yet persist unrepentantly in their sins, going so far as to deny the inerrant Scriptures, need to be rebuked.


You think it's a poor example, you mean. It's not as much as you seem to think, though that you speak of "physical aspect" is telling. (It means you may well think that any thing or certain things you don't consider strictly physical the people can help.) At any rate, there are people out there who do seem to think disability is so terrible that disabled people are routinely prayed over without their consent, told to repent of their sins that caused their condition, and, especially for hidden disabilities, told God doesn't want them to live as they do, it's sinful, and they should do everything possible to "live normally", that is, the ways the speakers think are right, think would make them acceptable to God.

People who say these types of things are in error for they do not know the Scriptures. Take for example this portion from the gospel of John, chapter 9:

"As he went along, he saw a man blind from birth. His disciples asked him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?"
"Neither this man nor his parents sinned," said Jesus, "but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life."

So, if someone is doing this to disabled people, it shows their own theological ignorance.

Given that and the examples I spoke of about how disability is taken as sin by some interpretations of the bible.. no, I don't see how it's such a terrible example.

Like stated above, the Bible doesn't state such things; quite the opposite.

Would you do me a favor and try to quote at least a full sentence if you quote me again? Thanks.

If there's a full sentence I wish to address, you can expect I will.
 
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Let me stop you there. God does not accept wicked people. (Please do not think I'm specifically refering to homosexuals. This includes liars, bigots, heterosexuals, and murderers.)

"This is what the LORD says about this people:
"They greatly love to wander;
they do not restrain their feet.
So the LORD does not accept them;
he will now remember their wickedness
and punish them for their sins."
Then the LORD said to me, "Do not pray for the well-being of this people. Although they fast, I will not listen to their cry; though they offer burnt offerings and grain offerings, I will not accept them. Instead, I will destroy them with the sword, famine and plague." But I said, "Ah, Sovereign LORD, the prophets keep telling them, 'You will not see the sword or suffer famine. Indeed, I will give you lasting peace in this place.' "" (Jeremiah 14:10-11)

"But your iniquities have separated
you from your God;
your sins have hidden his face from you,
so that he will not hear." (Isaiah 59:2)

God does not accept people the way they are. He DAMNS people the way they are. We are God's enemies from birth. But he LOVES us so much that he was WILLING to die for us; and he DID! Through his death, we are made whole and given a new life through faith and the flood of our Baptisms, to live that new life in continued sanctification.

Comparing disabled people is a poor example. Most disabled people cannot help the physical aspect of their disability.

Homosexuals CAN stop committing the sin of homosexual sex.
No the comparison is incredibly apt, much like comparing homophobia ot racism. Both show the hypocrisy and spitefulness some Christians engage in when they attack people who are different
 
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He made no mention of changing your orientation. He mentioned not committing the sin. Just because you are tempted doesn't mean you are then required to give in to it.
The lie of “change” is used time and again to attack the gay and lesbian minority. It is obviously an attack born of desperation.

BreadAlone did speak hiding one’s sexual oriention, of livening a life of pretence, denial and lies. Such things have been used to attack the disabled. There was a time when parents were encouraged to lock their disabled children away so good and normal people wouldn’t have to look at them or acknowledge they exist and be disgusted by their appearance. This is the same attitude that is expressed to our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters – ‘you disgust me hide and lie so I can pretend you don’t exist and don’t have to look at you’
 
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That's what I wanted to address. I was the one responding, you asked for responses. It's a little presumtious of you to address how I choose to do something you asked me to do.
I don't think it's particularly presumptuous. You requested I allow you stop there. I can't stop you from doing so, but your request is denied.

And no, I don't think I asked you or anyone to respond. I made a comment on the name of this forum in relation to my post.. but I only said that I would be surprised if no one found something to argue.. but if that was the case, I can't say it'd be a particularly unplesant surprise. I don't think I asked for responses.

I guess if it was a slip it'd be funny. I meant what I said..heterosexuals who have sex outside of marriage are wrong. (I guess I could have put "unwed heterosexuals," but still..)
I'm sorry I presumed that was a slip, then. Yes, as you say, it would have been much clearer if you'd been more specific.

Well, I showed you what the Bible said. What you choose to believe is of your own accord. I'll stand by what God says. If someone is living unrepentantly in sin, they are not pleasing God.
Interesting. I don't think I said anywhere that homosexuality, disability, or any acts thereof aren't sinful. I only said God accepts them and I have given you why I think that. Perhaps we have different definitions for "accept". Probably we have very different theology outside of this issue (by which I mean, God accepting people.)

That's a mystery of the gospel..God hates sinners..and yet loves them all the same. Unfathomable..
I disagree with this but that is probably no surprise. I may leave you to muse on that which you cannot fathom, but I myself choose to focus on what I know deeper than all else and that would be love. Or such in upper case.

I completely agree. People who don't know Christ usually don't respond kindly to "your a sinful pig." It takes the love of Christ in Word and deed to soften hardened hearts.
I'm glad we can agree on something. Genuinely so. Personally, I think the love of Christ tends to be infectious. It lifts and hearts that it touches, that we may touch.. and from there it can spread through them, too...

BUT, those who have supposedly recieved this love of Christ, and yet persist unrepentantly in their sins, going so far as to deny the inerrant Scriptures, need to be rebuked.
... And I dare not presume to cut off any from this love but feel it is my duty to express it to all. Many who try to rebuke instead manage to offend or even injure. When offense is taken they may chalk it up to "the world will hate you" for the first or "This proves how they are is wrong, look how pitiful they are!" for the second. Some (I daresay many) people who unkindly rebuke others don't seem to acknowledge the possibility that perhaps they had a hand in this, that maybe they could have done something better. I don't think it's right to hurt people. I think it's even less right to hurt people in the name of love and in the name of God. Seriously, I do. And "people" includes those you're talking about. Tread carefully, I pray you.

People who say these types of things are in error for they do not know the Scriptures. [snip]
I referred to that bit in the OP. If you are going to continue discussing, perhaps you should re-read it?

So, if someone is doing this to disabled people, it shows their own theological ignorance.

Like stated above, the Bible doesn't state such things; quite the opposite.
You say it shows their ignorance and that it doesn't say such things.. but I did talk about some passages that say/suggest otherwise. I realize that I didn't provide book and verse, but I'm afraid I'd need someone to pinch-hit for me there.

In any case, no matter how wrong you think them, there do exist Christians who hold that sickness and disability are sin or the result of personal sin. They would accuse you of holding equally wrong interpretations as you are accusing them. Just as you find here groups for and against homosexuality as sin doing. I still fail to see it as oh-so-very-different. It still comes down to "my interpretation is right and theirs is wrong." *shrug*


If there's a full sentence I wish to address, you can expect I will.
You can't and I'm not giving you my city, street, or zip code!

This is the only thing you've said that I take true issue with. Personally, I see taking just a sentence as bad enough, but if one would take just a phrase, I feel like it'd better just be to make a joke. The issue is context. A few words taken out of the middle of a sentence rarely has the same meaning that the entire sentence would. I feel you are misrepresenting me by taken a phrase out of context and I take issue with that. I consider the practice offensive and I'm sorry you feel justified in continuing with it.

I say this publicly because I want people to know what I think of this sort of thing.. that it is offensive, dishonest and either shows that they didn't hear what the person said or didn't care to keep with what they meant -- and both of those mean their words will probably be afforded less consideration than they might otherwise receive.
 
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Such things have been used to attack the disabled. There was a time when parents were encouraged to lock their disabled children away so good and normal people wouldn’t have to look at them or acknowledge they exist and be disgusted by their appearance. This is the same attitude that is expressed to our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters – ‘you disgust me hide and lie so I can pretend you don’t exist and don’t have to look at you’
this gave me an interesting question, do you consider aborting the disabled as an attack as well?
 
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No the comparison is incredibly apt, much like comparing homophobia ot racism. Both show the hypocrisy and spitefulness some Christians engage in when they attack people who are different
Ableism (the big -ism against disability) is sometimes compared to racism, too.. and that certainly isn't entirely apt. but it can embody the same things just as you say.

BreadAlone did speak hiding one’s sexual oriention, of livening a life of pretence, denial and lies. Such things have been used to attack the disabled. There was a time when parents were encouraged to lock their disabled children away so good and normal people wouldn’t have to look at them or acknowledge they exist and be disgusted by their appearance. This is the same attitude that is expressed to our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters – ‘you disgust me hide and lie so I can pretend you don’t exist and don’t have to look at you’
Thank you, thank you, thank you. It's nice to see someone else saying this stuff does (or at least did) happen. Better than seeing denial.. "no, it doesn't! They're wrong!" The thing is.. if it wasn't for disability rights advocates.. I don't see a reason to believe it should have ever changed.. I don't see a reason to believe a person would be saying those things if the ground had never been gained. So it's meaningless to me now. and it will be until a generation comes when the disabled people aren't discriminated against on both a societal and a personal level. And I know gays (and associates?) are fighting for these same things. For normalcy, for not being treated differently, not looked at as a plague upon society... stuff like that.

good for you
I agree. Amy gave a darn good comeback to BreadAlone's post.
Aw, you guys! :blush:

Like I've just said (and was saying as you wrote this), it wasn't a comeback as such. "Let me" is a request. I have learned to say no if I wish. I don't take words idly. And what I say idly is usually obvious (or so I hope.)

Thank you both. I was wondering if either of you (though I'm up for anyone, really) would be my pinch hitter if someone, BA, for instance, would like references for the passages I spoke of. As you may be able to tell by the length of my posts, it's not out of laziness. I do hope if someone asks for references someone would come to bat where I cannot.
 
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