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I am grateful to say that Friday, October 15, I have nine months sober. I am active in AA, and ready to do my fifth step.

Then that would make you 10 months and 5 days sober today. God bless you and good luck with the fifth step. It's really worth it, the whole thing, all the steps, and especially our higher power who I chose to call God. It got me sober, re-introduced me to a God in my life, and certainly made my relationships better. Have you started on your 8th step yet? Not trying to rush you but after the 5th, the 6th & 7th just naturally follow.
 
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Then that would make you 10 months and 5 days sober today. God bless you and good luck with the fifth step. It's really worth it, the whole thing, all the steps, and especially our higher power who I chose to call God. It got me sober, re-introduced me to a God in my life, and certainly made my relationships better. Have you started on your 8th step yet? Not trying to rush you but after the 5th, the 6th & 7th just naturally follow.

Thanks for the support. I did my fifth step a few weeks ago, and I am on Step 7. Each day, I ask God to rid me of the resentments I discussed in my Fifth Step, and I also learned in my Fifth Step that I suffer from an Entitlement Attitude, and it interferes with my relationships, and leads to my drinking, and other self-defeating and self-destructive behaviors.

I am in therapy, and working on this stuff intensely. I have an excellent Cognitive Behavioral Therapist, who is tough, and excellent inhelping me work through all my past thinking and current thinking that interfere with my recovery and progress.

Trish
 
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