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Being ignored by God and unlovable tends to put a damper on it.While replying to a post I had an epiphany of sorts which inspired the question I'm posing today. Two lattes may have added a bit of clarity as well.
So, why are you single? What's holding you back? Don't focus on a person or situation in your answer. Consider your contribution to the dilemma.
In a sea of singles, why are you free?
I saw your original post before you changed it.
If he's working, then he'll continue to work. If his intention is to use that work to benefit my situation, great. I don't know if or how he is doing that as it relates to me.It wasn’t optimism. Your pain points are real. But as this thread proves, you’re not alone. Every one is struggling with something. Whether it’s a behavior or limiting belief.
This thread is full of uncomfortable truths from different sources. Have you considered the possibility that’s Him at work?
~Bella
So, why are you single? What's holding you back? Don't focus on a person or situation in your answer. Consider your contribution to the dilemma.
In a sea of singles, why are you free?
Are all the women you've encountered narcissists? Is this limited to the Internet or have you experienced the same in person? What is your ideal way to get acquainted?
~Bella
When I think one this two reasons come to mind initially. One is rather superficial and one is more substantial.
One reason (the superficial one), I think, is how tall I am. I am quite tall for a woman. I am over six feet and most men, I find, do not particularly find tall women attractive.
The second reason, and I feel more important, is I am not very easy to get along with. I am often a mean and cold hearted. I am easily annoyed when I am around others and will express that I find someone annoying quite openly to that person.
The other side of that coin is that many men will assume that women who are taller than them will not like them, because tall women seem to pick men who are taller than them. Exceptions to that exist, but since it's a stereotype that you never really know if a man has or not, I suggest that you do your part to break it by being forward with men that you are very interested in.One reason (the superficial one), I think, is how tall I am. I am quite tall for a woman. I am over six feet and most men, I find, do not particularly find tall women attractive.
Yeah, you've got to change that.The second reason, and I feel more important, is I am not very easy to get along with. I am often a mean and cold hearted. I am easily annoyed when I am around others and will express that I find someone annoying quite openly to that person.
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