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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

N/A - not looking for anyone.

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?

Pro Cricketer, which I might've become had I played my cards right when I was younger. I'm too old and out-of-shape to realistically pursue it now.

I've always been attracted to teaching, but I'm thinking of staying in my chosen job for the immediate future.

3) What's your favorite food?

Pistachio nuts, and I was recently pleased to find such fine cuisine mentioned in the book of Genesis.

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Clean my flat and organise my belongings
2. Save enough money to visit Cornwall again
3. Um...not sure myself, but I guess the stock answer would be "to have lived a life dedicated to the Lord."

5) What amazes you the most about God?

Of all His accolades, I think Creator-of-the-Universe stands out the most.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.

1- My undying quench for truth and knowledge
2- My dry sense of humour
3- I don't have a Facebook/Myspace account

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

Lack of trust: I think I should understand that whatever happens, happens according to God's will

Health: I need to eliminate excessive amounts of carbs from my diet and get enough sleep

Procrastination: I need to... Ah, heck... I'm not even going to bother.
 
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Here are some questions to get to know each other better. If you don't want to answer, just say N/A. Not a problem!

1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. I would like for her to be a Christian who is real
2. I would like for her to be soft hearted.
3. I would like for her to have the same core values as me

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?
Narrating....i love narrating stories. People may look at me funny as i'm driving down the road because i use that time to practice different voices for narrations. Alas, i'm but a lowly business major(no offense to those in business out there.)

3) What's your favorite food? Steak or Mexican food of most sorts.

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Narrate some more short stories in this project i'm working on
2. Get closer to God and become more open and kind to those i'm around.
3. I think that it'll change once I am married and have kids, so I won't make any concrete statements here and now. If i had to say though, i would love to write my own book.

5) What amazes you the most about God?
The fact that, even though I can doubt his existence at times, He always seems to make
Himself known when I least expect it. He's a quiet God, but a mighty one.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.
1. People say i have a good voice, so that.
2. I actually like the fact that i'm mellow. I prefer to take a slow pace in life.
3. My dry sense of humor

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

1. I don't like how i freeze up around most people. I have a lot to say, putting it into words is the hard part for me =\. A lot of people don't know when i'm joking either because i'm so dry.....oh well.
2. I can be very competitive and a sore loser. I'm working on this one though. ;D
3. I zone out around others........a lot. I promise, i'm not bored, i just get sidetracked VERY easily.
 
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Here are some questions to get to know each other better. If you don't want to answer, just say N/A. Not a problem!

1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Faith, obviously!
2. Really enjoys life and has a great outlook!
3. Love kiddos and is a manly man!!!

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?

Being a home Ma out in the country!!! Yeah! What's stopping me? God and I have some more work to do in order for me to love someone!

3) What's your favorite food?

Crikey, I have to put down 2; chocolate and mangoes!!!

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Working on my character building!
2. Getting my licence and perhaps a job at the disabled school.
3. Perfecting my life through my God!

5) What amazes you the most about God?

Though I have rejected Him and have insulted Him so many times I can't even begin to count, He still showed me away out of the devil's realm!

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.

1. I'm an all rounder handy girl! I'm not a skirt and know how to work hard in so many areas!
2. I'm super happy almost 99.9% percent of the time!
3. I'm flexible and very moldable!

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

Don't ask me to tell you what's bad about myself, I let others do that; I'm afraid of being too lenient on myself!

That's brief anyway!
 
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Great topic!.

1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Modesty
2. Intelligence
3. Hardworking

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?

Dream Job would be to become a Judge in the upper courts.

3) What's your favorite food?
tough one.
I like italian cuisine.
pastas, pizzas .. mmhmm

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Clean my room
2. Learn 3 of Tommy Emmanuels songs by heart
3. Become a Judge or an SC

5) What amazes you the most about God?
His Grace

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.
Intelligent
Always right
Good general knowledge

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

Arrogant
Have to be always right (Because i am haha)
Argumentative.

But i think the above traits are what makes a good litigator good haha ;)
 
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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

I'm looking for:
1. Loves God abobe everything
2. Honesty
3. Loves me

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?
I would like in music stuff, I'm studying for being a music teacher, and everything is going well :)


3) What's your favorite food?
Mmmm... Pastas!

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. This week my goal is to be brave
2. Be a good student at college, and help in church, in music ministery.
3. Glorify God in all I do

5) What amazes you the most about God?
His perfection, His love, Is amazing to notice He never makes mistakes, and how He keep his promises. He's amazing!!

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.
1. I can forgive easily
2. I'm pacient
3. I try to look the possitive side of the troubles

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.
1. I'm too shy! - Make friends helps a lot!
2. I'm a little insecure - I don't know how to improve it I think it's part of being shy :p
3. Sometimes I get angry easily, but I forget everything a second later. - I think I When it happes I try to remember I make mistakes too!
 
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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Cute
2. Good Personality
3. Trust & Honesty

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you? Dream job was to always be a professional athlete. I'm still upset I never was as serious about it as I am now.

3) What's your favorite food? Lasagna.

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Make Good Lasting Impressions
2. Improve My Appearance
3. Die Happy

5) What amazes you the most about God? The fact he'd even care about us.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself. 1) I'm a good person. 2) Being in physical shape. 3) I'm a difference maker.

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them. Too many to mention, unfortunately.
 
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I'm making an effort to answer these before reading anybody else's responses so I'm not unintentionally inspired or anything.

Here are some questions to get to know each other better. If you don't want to answer, just say N/A. Not a problem!

1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Passion for community service and politics
2. No kids
3. Is or willing to become surgically sterile


2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?

My dream job would be something where I could do a variety of creative and business related tasks because I tend to get burned out doing one or the other. I'd be well suited to run a very small business, but I'd probably be deemed a failure by my peers because I wouldn't have the motivation to grow it and consume more of my time.

3) What's your favorite food?

Almost any type of pasta

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Catch up with my online English class
2. Purchase the house I'm renting or another dwelling
3. Lead a team on a short-term mission trip


5) What amazes you the most about God?

God chooses to reveal my purpose to me slowly. Even when I'm taking on endeavorers that seem conflicting God will make them work then show me the purpose.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.

1. I have a good sense of empathy.
2. I am able to communicate my own feelings and interpret others well.
3. I have passion and purpose.


7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

1. I have a hard time being motivated when I don't see the immediate benefit.
2. I tend to overlook details.
3. My candid, sometimes smart-ass responses amuse some and alienate or annoy others.
 
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Hey :)

1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. passion for God
2. Kindness
3. humour for everyone

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?
I really want to work with cars :) But that will take a while i need to finish school and study first :)


3) What's your favorite food?
my nana's lasauga

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Study for my exams
2. Be more active in my church
3. Travel Australia to tell people about Jesus :)

5) What amazes you the most about God?
Even if I stray, he always finds an amazing way to lead me back :]

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.
uummm that i'm a chrisitan :) that I appreciate life and I find myself funny...as lame as that sounds

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.
I don't take enough opportunities that God gives me, I can be judgemental at times and times I deny God.
 
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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Christian
2. Intelligent (I have a weakness for geeks)
3. Good sense of humor

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?
Not sure I have a dream job per se, but I think I would enjoy being a librarian in a small town library.

3) What's your favorite food?
If I have to pick just one - my mom's baking powder biscuits.

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Do an awesome job on my French test tomorrow.
2. By this time next year I would like to be studying abroad.
3. Write something that is of worth to others.

5) What amazes you the most about God?
That He's still going through with this whole Existence of the Universe thing.
6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.
1. I'm a great friend.
2. I'm intelligent.
3. I'm funny.

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.
1. I procrastinate (I'm doing so right now, actually). I have yet to find a way to solve this.
2. I can people's feelings without intending to. I just need to remember that not everyone appreciates sarcasm as much as I do!
3. I am terrible at time management. I'm actually getting better at this, thanks to my new habit of posting reminders of what needs to done when all over my desk.

 
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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Women of God
2. Can tolerate me
3. did I say a Women of God

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?
I have a few hobbies that would be cool to get paid for but none of which is my calling i have been given.

3) What's your favorite food?
almost anything Mexican

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Take another step with Him
2. Bring someone to know Christ
3. be pleasing to God, doing His will, have a wife, have children

5) What amazes you the most about God?
No matter how stupid of things I do He still loves me. He loves me/ us so much that nothing you can do will make Him stop. That He speaks into our lives when we are ready to unknowingly walk off a cliff. The way He can calm me when the world my world is falling apart. That He shields me from all bad things in this world and allows me to rest when He is still in battle. That Jesus Christ took beatings so that I may have the opportunity to be free. The pain He went through on the cross... where do I stop.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.
loving, compassionate, and a man after Gods will

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.
I still allow my flesh to win: seeking God and trying to clean things up
I cuss: trying to avoid getting to the point where I use those words
I tend to seek my own path/ will and end up kicking myself later for it: going after Gods heart and will, trying to trust fully in Him and His will
 
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Here are some questions to get to know each other better. If you don't want to answer, just say N/A. Not a problem!

1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Honesty
2. Trustworthy
3. Intelligent

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?

Animation. I had to drop out of college because I couldn't afford to keep paying for it, my house, and have enough money to eat. All I need is one more year, and I'll have my bachelors though...
But the job I have now, I love. I'm making some good money, I work with great people, and I wouldn't trade it for the world. :)

3) What's your favorite food?

Taco's.
Duh. :|

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Cook for 600+ people every night and not get stressed or mess up.
2. Find a good woman and start a relationship.
3. Compete in a wet rope Thai competition in Thailand.

5) What amazes you the most about God?

How He refuses to test us/let us be tested more than we can handle.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.

1. My hair
2. My brutal honesty
3. My selflessness.

P.S. I don't really like this question...

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

1. I don't talk to God near as much as I should.
2. I refuse to trust a person... I doubt this is going to change.
3. I keep putting off buying things I need, just because I don't want them. First thing on the list: A car. I have two houses now, but no car...
 
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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse?

1. Someone with a heart for God and who loves Him with all their hear soul mind and strength.
2. A kind compassionate person and yet with a strong and courageous personality.
3. Someone with the heart of a missionary.

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?

I really want to become a missionary. I'm currently attending college though in a degree which I think would help me in missions work.

3) What's your favorite food?

I love tacos, i also like pizza. I'm not sure, it depends on my mood. ^_^

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. This week I hope to work hard and do well on my homework (because school is starting again for me).
2. I hope to memorize a lot more scripture , work on gardening...etc.
3. Be consistently a kind and compassionate person, become the person whom Jesus wants me to be completely and help others.

5) What amazes you the most about God?
That he is so longsuffering. The scriptures that He has given to us to study and how well he preserved them.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.
I don't know...um, I am generally a content person, I love being around people, I have a pretty good memory in most things I think (I can usually remember names and verses very easily ).

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

I'm horrible with communication in public and I'm often shy. I do my homework too slowly, and I want to fix all of those problems somehow.
 
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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Someone who helps me grow in my faith.
2. Intelligent, I don't mean well read or anything, though obviously that's good, but someone who sits back and thinks about stuff and forms intelligent conclusions.
3. Nice, animal person.

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you? I don't know. I don't know. And the fact that I don't know!!!

3) What's your favorite food? Stop me when you can, I'm on a diet! LOL. Key Lime Pie and Peaches, though, those are my favorites.

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. This week I want to run a mile every day.
2. Within the year I want my first professional job.
3. Within my lifetime if I could advance the cause of freedom just a little bit, I'd be content.

5) What amazes you the most about God? That he is actually knowable and loves his children.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself. Well, I dare say intelligent, at least in a way, not smug (LOL), try to understand where people are coming from.

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them. Socially awkward (practice, practice, practice), overly critical (alright, I don't mind this in myself, personally, but I don't really want to be a debbie downer...so I just try to catch myself, goes along with the social awkwardness), and finally, that I'm a little, I don't know how to put it into words, but I get the feeling that a lot of people might think I'm dull upon first meeting me (just focusing on my interests and developing my skills, at least in theory!).
 
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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Loving towards me
2. Kind
3. Christian


2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?

To be a famous writer. No, I'm not doing it because I'm awful at writing.

3) What's your favorite food?

Pineapple

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. Get more sleep
2. Run a marathon
3. Get married and have a family


5) What amazes you the most about God?

How much he loves us. ^^

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.

I care about others
I take care of my health
I'm devoted to God


7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

I can be stubborn
I have allergies
Sensitive

I pray and try not to eat things that bother my allergies.
 
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1) What are 3 things you're looking for in a spouse? If you're already married, what are 3 things you admire about your spouse?

1. Someone at the same level spiritually as me so we can grow more in love with each other and with God as we age.
2. Someone who can make me laugh and can laugh at me.
3. Someone who is physically attractive subjectively speaking.

2) What would your dream job be? Are you doing it now? If not, what's stopping you?


From childhood it was always to be a police officer. However, that has not worked out due to poor dexterity and that I went unconscious when exposed to CS (incapacitant) spray. What does God want me to do now?

3) What's your favourite food?

Fish & Chips.

4) What are 3 goals you have? 1-this week 2-within the year and 3-within your lifetime

1. To fly to Boston and get to church on time.
2. To expand my knowledge of theology and love for God.
3. To do God's will.

5) What amazes you the most about God?

That he chose me.

6) Name 3 traits you like about yourself.

I'm fairly physically fit, not easily annoyed or angered, and get pleasure from serving others.

7) Name 3 things you don't like about yourself and what you're going to do to improve them.

A lack of self-control or discipline, can be judgemental and lazy at times. I intend to focus on God more and spend more time with him. He will improve me I pray!
 
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