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5 love languages

Which of the 5 love languages is your top ones?

  • Words of Affirmation

  • Physical Touch

  • Quality time

  • Acts of Service

  • Recieving Gifts


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Boss_BlueAngels

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Quality time and words of affirmation are mine. As much as I do love being with my girlfriend and holding hands and all that, I'd say the two most important things are the quality time, either on the phone or chatting online, and words of affirmation are top on my list. Just as long as we can communicate, I'm happy. :) As much as I HATE hot physically being around her, it is wonderful just to hear her voice over the phone, or see the words she types to me. :)
 
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Dragonfly226

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wow, I'm actually amazed that physical touch is so up there. My biggest two are quality time and words of affirmation. I'm more of a "no touchy" person. Of course, the words of affirmation is mostly in reference to my family, it makes me feel like a 5 year old when my friends and b/f say "I'm so proud of you!"
 
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Quality time is HUGE for me, whether it's with my fiance or with my girl friends or my family.

Physical touch is huge for me with my fiance, but not at all with friends or family.

Words of affirmation are fairly strong for all relationships, for me.
 
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Hm. Romantically, I love to be romantic with words. I love to tell her how I feel. How I value her.
I also love to show her through touching.Stroking her arms, massaging her shoulders, holding her hand. You know. When we're together, I find it very hard not to hold her close.
I also love quality time. I would say these three tied together, with the emphasis on the two first ones. Physical touch and words.
 
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faith guardian said:
Hm. Romantically, I love to be romantic with words. I love to tell her how I feel. How I value her.
I also love to show her through touching.Stroking her arms, massaging her shoulders, holding her hand. You know. When we're together, I find it very hard not to hold her close.
I also love quality time. I would say these three tied together, with the emphasis on the two first ones. Physical touch and words.
wow me and you are exactly the same!
 
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Hmm... i'm wondering if one will come out stronger than the others over time... I used to give gift giving wasn't last on the list, but i've found it is now... while i see things like words of affirmation come higher now, and serving i show love by, but don't recieve it by..

I really find my love language is shown by the times when i'm just not happy. If I have a problem with my fiance then it's usually coz we've not been spending enuf quality time together
 
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