2 months now

[mimi4him]

I have been sparated for 2 months now . My husband says he is still confused and does not know what he wants.
I asked him to go to counceling or move out . He as you see chose to move out. He has cheated on me several times in our almost 27yrs of marriage . I have always forgiven him and he has always strightened up for yrs at a time. But this time I said NOMORE! get help or leave and fiqure out what u want.
I still want him I love him . I know God can heal our marriage and him. Did I give him a green light to cheat or Did i do the right thing. Im confused on that.
any advice would be appreciated
blessings
carol

 

[APG38]

I have been sparated for 2 months now . My husband says he is still confused and does not know what he wants.
I asked him to go to counceling or move out . He as you see chose to move out. He has cheated on me several times in our almost 27yrs of marriage . I have always forgiven him and he has always strightened up for yrs at a time. But this time I said NOMORE! get help or leave and fiqure out what u want.
I still want him I love him . I know God can heal our marriage and him. Did I give him a green light to cheat or Did i do the right thing. Im confused on that.
any advice would be appreciated
blessings
carol

You definately did not give him the greenlight to cheat, that has nothing to do with what you did or didnt do. You were right in giving him the option to fix that problem or move on. I believe that the only cause of a marriage failing is when one person gives up. You want the marriage to be a healthy one. You conveyed that to him. You are trying, pray that God will help him see what he has and that he wont give up, and also pray that God will guide you in the best way to deal with the situation.

 

[madison1101]

You have Biblical grounds for divorce, according to scripture. But, you said that you want to restore your marriage. You have to pray for your husband and your marriage. Stormie O'Martian wrote a terrific book "The Power of a Praying Wife." Read it, pray the prayers. See if God moves in your husband's heart.