well, next week will be a year since our misscarriage. It might have to do with this, but i cry myself to sleep the last few nights, and i just say i dont know why. I dont know EXACTLY why, i think it might be because of this,and that every month i think this might be the month that we will be pregnant and i fail every month. I feel stupid that i am dealing w/this in such a great magnitude a year later. I have a lot of really good days, i thought i had worked through it, till a few days ago, when i just am extremly angry and anything makes me cry. Well and also to add to the mix, my sister in law is pregnant w/her second child, and she is the same age as i am, she just got married when she found out she was pregnant the second time and i've been married for going on 2 years now, and i just feel like God is punishing me or something idk, but what i was going to say was that next wednesday is the exact date that the misscarriage happened, and thats the day my sil goes to the dr. for the ultrasound to find out weather she is having a boy or a girl. We all think its going to be a girl, which would be even harder, just adds more to the mix cuz thats what i was hoping for when i was pregnant. My husband seems to be perfectly ok, he just accepts things and moves on, i just cant seem to do that, fully. I really think i should get some sort of counseling or something, or join a support group, ijust dont know where to find that. So first of all i'm asking for prayers and secondly i'm asking if anyone knows of any sort of support group or anything like that. Thanks and sorry i rambled so long, its just extreamly hard.
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The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.
If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.
If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.
Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist
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Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.
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CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
