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    Sharing Past Homosexual Sin to Future Wife?

    Hello. I'll do my best to keep this short and concise. I'm a 21 year old male and have been a believer for nearly 8 months now. Before that, I had been addicted to porn and engaged in immoral sexual activity. Although I am not proud of it now, the grace and love of God allows me to move...
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    How do you have a real loving relationship without lust?

    I've always struggled with this. Bible and God preach that lusting is the same as adultery. But how can you fall in love with somebody and decide to marry them without being sexually attracted to them first? Thanks in advance.
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    I've lost my virginity - now what?

    At the young age of 10 I was exposed to something that I till this day can't process. I was raped. To be honest, I've been living in denial since, as at that stage I did not know ANYTHING about men and sex,etc. I honestly didn't know what had just happened to me. Till this day, I can't remember...
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    My son has a very serious fetish. HELP, not sure what to do?

    Not sure where this all began but my son is now 12 years old. Since I can remember he had a thing for skin as a toddler, then he loved touching female legs. The skin touching stopped or paused for a few years up until he was 9. He has felt so much guilt in his heart that he shares what he's...