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  1. EtainSkirata

    Please pray for peace and clarity

    Hello again, I'm having all kinds of issues these last few weeks. I'm working on finding a therapist who has experience treating OCD, so there is that. My mind is in turmoil, jumping from one obsession to the next (recently I've been afraid to eat peanut butter because "what if someone who is...
  2. EtainSkirata

    Struggling with same sex attraction

    Hello, I've battled SSA for about 14 years now. I've never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl, but it's an attraction that I've been aware of for a long time. Sometimes it's barely a passing thought, but lately I've been acutely aware of the issue. I feel as though I have to police my brain...
  3. Quid est Veritas?

    Large scale evaluation of Homosexual genetics and the politics of representing findings

    No single gene associated with being gay "The Harvard and MIT researchers concluded genetics could account for between 8-25% of same-sex behaviour across the population, when the whole genome is considered." I read this, and thought, that is interesting, so it supports psychosocial factors or...