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    How should a young Christian man approach girls?

    I am approaching 20 years of age, as my birthday is in June. Like all young men, my flesh yearns for romantic female contact. However, in accordance with God, I am staying sexually pure until I am married. The problem is this. I'd love to date a girl and get married but I'm absolutely 100% dead...
  2. Lanae

    About Affairs

    Someone at church told me that if a female (Tina for example) touches a male ( Kevin for example) , people will start rumors saying that Tina is having an affair with Kevin when he already have a girlfriend ( Christine for Example). Then Kevin’s girlfriend, (Christine) will think that Kevin is...
  3. mreeed

    'If I could just hold you I wouldn't need to marry you.'

    I am trying to figure out: What is the best way of going about being friends with someone who is romantically attracted to me but with whom I can't see it working out? He is something of a family friend, and I also work for him (now) casually in his self-employed business(es). We have both...