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compulsion

  1. L

    Confession Compulsion, or Necessary?

    I cannot believe I'm here writing this, because I am appalled at myself. But I'm spiraling, so here we go. Almost a year ago, in November, I moved in to a friend's house (in their basement). My room was down there with the 6 month old baby's room, we shared a wall but to get to the baby's room I...
  2. L

    Compulsion to Apologize

    Hi all. I broke up with my ex on May 13th. I've been thinking lately about how he's told me he'd gone to other people asking for advice on our relationship, and how I'm pretty sure he's told people about a bad thought I confessed to him. A few times, we went "pretty far," physically, but not all...
  3. EtainSkirata

    Confession - compulsion or necessary? Please, somebody help me

    Some people on here have seen my post in the past about the day I grabbed my boyfriend's hurt thumb when we were wrestling, or the day I gave in to a mean impulse and poked him lightly in the eye with my glasses. I was so torn up and felt so wretched about these incidents. I had tried to make...