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chronic illness

  1. S

    Hard to reconcile with God allowing me to be chronically ill and having to depend on narcissistic abusive parents

    Im 26, a female, and was healthy most of my life except for minor stomach issues until my last year of college. My parents have always been controlling, negligent, and have narcissistic tendencies. They emotionally gaslight me and dont take my health issues seriously even though im visibly weak...
  2. B

    Need prayers for debilitating illness

    Hello to everyone and I hope you're all well. I have been struggling with illness for many years. It has been permanent (not easing and there every minute of the day) for at least 2 years. I am always completely exhausted and dizzy. I have regular nausea, sweating and overheating. I am usually...
  3. Vi

    First Admission: Marrying The Man Who Date Raped Me So I'd Be Right With God

    One thing abt being in a dysfunctional first family is that you take on a role for the sake of survival. You actually believe the role is really you, too. To escape the addiction cycle I embraced perfectionism and an escapism - form of the Christian religion. When my boyfriend/fiance...