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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

anger with god

  1. Doubting Lyle

    Does God Hold a Grudge?

    Does God hold a grudge against those who are angry with or hold a grudge against him? I have a facial deformity that has kept me distant and mistrusting of God for most of my life. I have blamed God for allowing my malady to happen. At 62, I find myself going to Al-Anon meetings because of...
  2. Doubting Lyle

    Hello, I'm new.

    I'm here mainly to learn on several fronts. First a bit of backstory: I was born with a facial difference (deformity). As I became aware of this at an early age and as I grew into a teenager and young adult, I adopted an attitude of blame towards God for letting this happen and setting in...