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    Martin Luther's farewell letter

    Anyone know where I can read Martin Luther's farewell letter to his wife Katharina (Katherine) von Bora? Thanks, Shok
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    What would you do?

    I would never go on vacation without the wife, ever. Shok
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    That Women May Preach...

    2:3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 2:5 To be discreet, chaste...
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    Was Lot righteous?

    Having a debate with my in-laws. Was Lot righteous or did he receive favoritism because he is the brother of Abraham? My position is that Lot was righteous. Lot said: Gen 19:19 Behold now, thy servant hath found grace in thy sight, and thou hast magnified thy mercy, which thou hast showed unto...
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    When does virgin not mean untouched?

    I agree 100%. I just couldn't believe my ears when I heard that one. Thanks! Shok
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    When does virgin not mean untouched?

    I was told that "virgin" or "virginity" in the bible means a maiden that is not married or a mother and doesn't mean "a women with no carnal knowledge of a man". Where in the bible is "virgin" or "virginity" used to mean maiden that is not married or a mother and not to mean "a women with no...
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    What does it REALLY mean when Men LOOK at women?

    I wish women would dress more modestly. It would make it alot easier on men. Shok
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    Restricted from sex during pregnancy

    Good advice from everyone. I would like to add that you should continue to talk to him about your feelings. It can be an emotional roller coaster feeling insecure then guilty for feeling that way but its good for the both of you to talk it out whenever you feel this way. God bless, Shok
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    Marriage help?

    I'll bet dollars to doughnuts the real problem is something other then "quality time things to do". I could be wrong but thats usually the case in my experience. Shok
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    Drama with the in-laws, beware it's long.

    I think you did the right thing but you need to get a restraining order. Make a copy of the message, it should be no problem getting a restraining order. Shok
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    How do you support your spouse?

    His behavior is normal for a guy frustrated with his job and feeling powerless. The last thing he wants is someone telling him what to do or anything close to it. Helpful innocent suggestions will probably come across wrong. The best thing you can do is get him to talk and actively listen...
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    So confused; recently divorced

    Ta2mama, To answer your question about adultry when marrying someone who is divorced. I believe that God doesn't recognize divorce in any circumstances other than fornication. How else is it possible that it is adultry? It is legal in America do divorce for nearly any reason but only one...
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    Need Ideas Please

    Thats a tough question. Often its the test of time that will tell you if its puppy love or real love. Shok
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    Angry...

    Great sermon on Biblical dress code. http://www.momof9splace.com/sermon.html Please note one typo. Proverbs 25:29 should read Proverbs 29:25. Shok
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    Married and in college...

    When we got married I was in college working part time and she worked full time. After I graduated we were both working full time. Six months after I graduated we had a first kid. Three years later we had our second kid. Six years later my wife went back to college and got a BA and is now...
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    How do you handle credit cards ?

    I can't talk my wife into being anti-credit. It hasn't caused us financial trouble but I can never pay it off in one month and always pay interest. What a waste! Shok
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    I'm Exhausted by This!

    Good advice. I know in my case what lessons I missed growing up had to be discovered through experience as an adult. It can be painfull and expensive at times but when I took over finances God blessed us financialy and then some. Shok
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    Restoring a broken marriage

    Normal. Giver her time. She may be too ashamed, feeling like a fool right now. Keep telling her you willing to do what ever it takes. Normal. Give her time. She might feel that if she opens up now she'll say things she'll regret or make matters worse. Keep talking to her and telling her how...
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    Guys, do you have trouble understanding your wife sometimes?

    In general yes. There are always exceptions though for both sexes. Both improve with age IMHO. Shok
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    would you tell the husband?

    Ditto. If it was me I'd want someone, anyone, to tell me. Shok