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  1. Vicissa

    Problem situation...please respond.

    I could use your feedback right now. We've just had a situation in our house, and I am looking for some opinions on it right now. My H has his son over right now, and he's the same age (11) as my eldest daughter. They play together a lot, she talks to him a lot. Well, apparently she was told...
  2. Vicissa

    You take on this???

    Well, we went to church, but ended up coming home because we were late and wouldn't have been able to find seats. So we stop off at the grocery store, me, H, the kids, and my nephew. My H often walks really fast, and he's a lot bigger than me so I asked him to slow down. He did. Well we were...
  3. Vicissa

    I need to talk about this...and could use some feedback please.

    I posted this on the WD board too, but would like some feedback from married ppl and/or men on their take on the situation. :scratch: Okay, well. I don't know:sigh: Here's the deal. My Dh has a kid with another woman from before we were together. And I don't like how much they talk...
  4. Vicissa

    How to refuse family visits...is it right?

    Well, here is the tricky situation I find myself in. My sister (actually she's an aunt, but I call my aunt's sister's because my grandma raised me) has a son, who is WAY out of control. I mean, WAY beyong the norm. There are other kids in my family who are doing some bad stuff, but not to...
  5. Vicissa

    disapppointment/resentment towards spouse

    I posted this in WD as well, but I wanted to get a fair amount of feedback from the guy side as well. I am really interested in your responses, just ask that you please be as kind as possible. I'm having a hard time right now. I struggle with this very thing. I resent that my husband isn't...
  6. Vicissa

    Oops......yeah....forgot to bite my tongue!

    I also posted this in the WD, but figured I'd get some guy responses. Well today hasn't started out on the greatest note, but I'm hopeful it will get better. This morning the DH has to take out the laundry, and we have LOTS of it. And this situation is the introduction to the "fun" I had...
  7. Vicissa

    Name calling...

    I posted this in WD, but I also wanted to get some male perspective on this situation This has been an ongoing struggle with me, and once again it rears its ugly head. My hubby has an anger problem and the last past two days, we've been really going at it because of the things that come out...
  8. Vicissa

    [open] Not very understanding husband...

    *I posted this in women's discussion but I wanted to post it in a place where I can get some male feedback too. Just to let you know about the swellings I'm talking about in this post, I'm giving you a short history. For the past three months I kept having these swellings. My eye will swell...
  9. Vicissa

    Counseling question

    Okay, can someone please tell me the difference, if any, between normal counseling and pastoral counseling, other than who does it? I've been to regular counseling before, but not pastoral counseling. I also would like to know about marriage counseling, what's that like? In light of our...
  10. Vicissa

    My heart is breaking...

    I'm having such problems right now. Financially, we are in dire straits. Possibly getting evicted this week, if we can't come up with the rent. My hubby's boss hasn't been providing enough work, and it's just put us in a bad way. To top that off, me and the hubby got into a horrible fight...
  11. Vicissa

    Louisiana/Gulf coast people

    For any of you who live in the Louisiana/Gulf coast region (I know at least one on here is from N.O) I just wanted to check up on you and make sure your okay after the storms last night.
  12. Vicissa

    Should I try to be more understanding?

    I put this in women's discussion but would also like some responses from guys as well so I decided to post it here as well. Okay. Here is my situation. My hubby hurt his back. He is in bad pain...he spent the whole day in bed yesterday. He was maybe awake for a total of 4 hours. And I...
  13. Vicissa

    disturbing dream meaning???

    Not quite sure if this dream has any meaning or not, though I feel like it does. Whether psychological or spiritual, I'd like your opinions and interpretations on this dream. The majority of the dream revolved around a lake, but it was a lake that seemed more like the ocean. It had waves...
  14. Vicissa

    Not understanding God..

    Hey there everyone! I don't post in the marriage ministry section very often, but I wanted to on this subject as it involves my husband, and I'd like to get your responses as well. I am trying really hard to figure out why God seems to either let bad things happen to us or causes them to...
  15. Vicissa

    [open]Questions for messianic jews

    Hey there! I know at least one of you from another forum:wave: , and I had a couple questions about your beliefs, and how you came to them. Are any of you former practicer's of Judaism?? I ask this because I wonder how you came to believe in Jesus as messiah? I'm having some issues right...
  16. Vicissa

    Exhausted...(need advice, sorry so long)

    Hello everyone! I am so tired of arguing and not getting anywhere with my hubby. I could really use your advice, and even encouragement.... We are on two different pages in our lives right now, and it is causing all sorts of conflict. Our main disagreement settles around our children, how...
  17. Vicissa

    Health and spiritual issues (request for prayer please)

    I'm going to post this in a few rooms that I am regularly in, just looking for as much support and prayer as I can get....I need it right now:( As some of you know, I'm moving from MI to Louisiana in like 9 days....if all goes well. I haven't really been feeling the best, and that is the...
  18. Vicissa

    Prayer request. Health and spiritual distress

    I'm going to post this in a few rooms that I am regularly in, just looking for as much support and prayer as I can get....I need it right now:( As some of you know, I'm moving from MI to Louisiana in like 9 days....if all goes well. I haven't really been feeling the best, and that is the...
  19. Vicissa

    Tough Scripture...what's your opinion?

    What do you think of this verse? I read it last night and thought on it for a long time.... How do you think this pertains to someone who says they know God and continue to cheat on their spouse? Or how about someone who continues to go to the nightclub and drink and dance the night away...
  20. Vicissa

    Thanks!

    Not sure who gave me the blessings, but just wanted to say thanks and I appreciate it :) !