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For me, it's just liberating. I've always felt that when I'm naked I'm just who I really am.

This may be strange to most people, but I would almost always rather be completely nude, especially in nature. I'm 27 and I've been somewhat of a closet nudist for the last 10 years of my life. Theres nothing sexual about it for me, it just makes me feel happy and free. I'm never naked in front...

That's true. I think some people just have a really hard time putting themselves in someone else's shoes, and those people are usually better off not giving advice at all. I'm praying for you and your fiancé as well. I wish you both the very best. :)

I'm curious of the specific Bible verses you're speaking of, because I disagree with almost everything you said. From my understanding, he never said that he wasn't looking forward to getting married and making a new life with his wife. It sounds like he is mostly sad about missing his parents...

Idk. I've always felt the "I don't find women of color attractive" argument kind of offensive. I hear it from my friends sometimes and it always makes me cringe a little bit. Even if it is a personal opinion, I feel like that sort of statement should be kept to oneself.

Congratulations on getting married buddy. I'm getting married in April. Relatively soon I guess. I think it's normal to have nostalgic, occasionally sad thoughts, especially so close to such a life changing event like moving and/or getting married. Like you said, though, you will still be close...

There are actually Christians on this forum who voted no? How sad. Even though my fiancé and I are both white, I often wonder why there's still so much judgement about interracial marriage even in America, particularly in areas of the south like where I live. I sometimes feel like people here...

Yes, I regret it. Sometimes I get really sad about it, because I'm currently engaged and wish I would have saved it for the night I get married, but life it's all a learning experience. At least I know better now.

I am trying to do the right thing. I wasn't trying to justify my sins. For the record, I decided against carrying around protection because I felt like my heart was in the wrong place. My heart needs to change and I admit that. Having condoms so easily accessible only makes the temptation to...

Interesting that you completely missed the point of my comment. We're not having sex anymore, but I have protection in case I mess up, which God willing won't happen again. That doesn't mean I'm not going to strive to obey God, that means I'm being cautious because I'm obviously not a perfect...

We got a doctor's opinion and she is definitely not pregnant. We also just got engaged on the 20th. I am happy and life is going really good right now. I'll definitely take pre-marital counseling into consideration like others have suggested. Knowing that I struggle with sex before marriage...

I'm trying to make it perfect, but I'm pretty certain that I'm going to propose to my girlfriend tomorrow. We have been together for 2 years and it just seems perfect right now. Wish me luck...

Really good advice. Thanks.

No. I don't want to keep disobeying God. We talked about it and are both on the same page about no more sex until marriage. I've been praying more to keep from falling into temptation again. We also discussed getting married really soon. In fact, I already bought an engagement ring and I'm...

I'm sticking with "or not" until we get married, lol.

I'm going to say this from an imperfect Christian guy's perspective, nobody you date is going to be perfect. When you find someone you truly love, you will accept them for who they are. Based on how honest he has been with you about his past, I can tell you that I think he's also being honest...

UPDATE: The test was negative. I honestly can't believe I spent the last few days so worked up over this, especially when God was telling me everything would be okay. Thanks everybody for all the advice and prayers. I'm still thinking about proposing really soon.

We agreed for Friday because we both work and have busy schedules and we want to find out together.

I do want to marry her. I wasn't planning on it being under these circumstances, but God is in control, and I have a little more peace about it than I did. We'll know for sure if she is pregnant tomorrow. That was really encouraging. Thank you very much for your prayers.

Thanks for the advice. I think I'm going to finally break the silence about this tomorrow. It's been an awful feeling bottling it all up inside. She is a Christian, and marriage is something I have been praying about.