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Thanks for your kind words. Sorry for the long delay before replying. I don't check these forums much anymore. I'm sorry to hear that your own marriage is breaking down. I hope that things have improved since you wrote this comment. I've been searching the Scriptures about marriage, divorce and...

Sorry that you are going through this. I've been through similar issues. Sex doesn't come naturally to all people, particularly Christians. We are often repressed and used to thinking about sex in a very negative way. Talking about it together is a start, but often we hide our true thoughts and...

No, not all men cheat. I'm divorced because my ex-wife cheated on me even after I had forgiven her for cheating... My advice, if it is worth anything, is this: go to marriage counselling. Get help early enough and it can make a difference. Sadly, in my case, it was too late. Marriage is hard...

It's nearly two year since this happened to me. I thought it might be helpful to give an update, to let you know how things turned-out and because I'm still coming to terms with it. The short version: - she re-started her affair with the man (another married man in our church) despite going to...

Thank you all for your thoughts, and your prayers. It is good to know that, even though I cannot tell my local church family about the affair without making matters worse, i can share and receive love and prayerful support through these forums. It was and is hard, but we are moving forward...

I don’t want to divorce her... I will be able to forgive her, and I don’t want to break my children’ hearts and home...

Wise words - thank you!

My wife and I have been married for eighteen years. We have three children between the ages of 12 and 6. When my wife came back from work yesterday, she was upset. I had already made dinner for her and I brought her a cup of tea. I had no idea she was about to admit to cheating on me... I...